There is so so much more to it than just love, money, sex, education, etc. to make a marriage work and grow old together people. I see many young people today chasing after education, money, fun, etc. thinking to themselves that if they have this that they would be so happy and I just shake my head. I once know a millionaire who said, she don't feel complete because she is unable to have a child of her own. You can't have everything, if you understand this simple concept, you are already a head start and smarter than millions of people.