say what??? please, explain this bold part.
When I say “right” what I mean is that we live in a society (it’s even more true in Hmong society especially in Laos) that has an unwritten rule that tells us that if you don’t want to get beat up or killed then stay away from other people’s wives.
In Laos, if you are caught banging someone’s wife, the husband can literally beat the shit out of you or kill you and Hmong society even support or even encourage the husband to do so as if it’s perfectly okay and moral. As a matter of fact to not beat the shit out of the cheater will send a message to the community that you’re not a man.
A lot of the times in Laos if this were to happen the boyfriend and the wife are stripped naked in front of the Hmong council (whatever you call it) and the village is allow to torture them like dogs.