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 :2funny: kidding, but it might help some of yall sexually frustrated men out there....i got to admit...i use to be so bad with the ladies...it was to the point where I was desperate enough to seek a dating coach...only to find most of these dating coaches are in it for the business...it's a whole lot of rubbish with some merit..but really all you need to know is.....

1) be a manly man
2) control your hormones
3) control your ego
4) be sexually appealing, this mean don't masturbate or have sex so often. LOls...when you are sexually fuel up, aka horny...you will emit a much stronger sexual appeal...Of course this takes practice to master, cus you still got to know how to control your raging hormones and not come off as a perverted jackass..lols
5) have a decent income
6) know that you are marketable
7) don't give a fock so much
8)  if you can't be yourself, be original at least, like come up with jokes you made up yourself...if you're the type to respond to her texts right away, do so...with confidence..an d not appear like you are too clingy or ass kissing to her..most dating coaches will tell you to make her wait until she misses you so much or she is frustrated..th at's deceptive, and not all girls, usually the good ones will put up with your bullchits...lo ls .keep it simple, know the main keys which I pointed out.....and forget these rubbish dating coaches who feeds you so much information you don't even remember the next day...lols

of course, it takes practice to master all of these...so the chicks in here are good to practice with...I'm sure they don't really mind, as it gives them some practice as well....lols

next up....I will give 8 things every woman need to know to get any guy they want...lols


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Re: 8 things every man need to know to get any girl they want...
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2018, 07:45:48 AM »
i only need one thing and that is money...but danng it, i ain't got any...so i need a miracle! ha!  :2funny:



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« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2018, 10:57:04 AM »
okay folks! well, got a few pm's from some brothers for me to elaborate more...haha so i'll just elaborate here. ;D

soooo now you know the how and what...but the why's...so this is why these things are essential to improve your game and balls..lols

Manly Man-- a man naturally is the protector. He has to be willing to put himself in harms way to protect her. As a man, if you don't have that willing to die to protect those you love...she will see you as her little brother only. haha a girl is extremely sensitive, despite she may display some aggressive behaviors. She is after all naturally a protector herself, esp when it comes to her children..or future children. so she's not going to want a guy who is a sissy, insecure, and low self esteem. As the man, you got to be much tougher mentally and of course physically than she is...you are the star, and she's just the co-star. she knows this. If you cry during movies, forget about the second date...lols

hormone control-- it's the same concept as asking for something but not making it seem like you're trying too hard or desperate...in side you want something really bad, like going to job interview and you really want the job. Not showing any interest that you "want it" is bad. But showing too much and trying too hard is bad too. This is where you have to master this skill through practice. In most cases most men master this after a thousand failed datings...lols so how do master it? moderation is the key here. a well balance of giving her subtle clues, to obvious clues, and then sometimes make it seem like you don't even care, I why you probably shouldn't anyway because in the end of the day, you can only try to, it's her that ultimately makes the decision.

ego control--ego is man's worst enemy. that sums it up. it's one thing to be egoistic in a sarcastic way. like putting up a act or being a character...li ke most of us dudes in here do...lols but it's been proven time and time again...that having a big ego turns anyone off..so know how to be humble...and don't make it seem like you're better than everyone else.

sex appeal-- this is probably more like first impressions. Like men, when a women see's a dude, she's going to think to herself..."can I see myself in bed with this guy"... :P does he look like he can do the dirty dancing well? haha Don't be that out of shape guy who he knows internally, he's not really confident at all, but's he going to fake it that he's 110% confident. Nor, be the nice guy, that think just because you are nice and deserving, you have nothing to lose..You still got wash the dishes if you want to have something to eat..lols You're asking for some serious awkwardness and girls are naturally more intuitive than men are so they will see right through your pants...haha

income--forget the movies folks...they lied to you...women are not after your money...they just don't want to be with someone who they know will be financially burdened, will live paycheck to paycheck and possibly have a hard time holding a job. sure for young couples that's okay, but still the guy still has to show that he has potential, so he's working hard and studying hard to one day land that dream job. I see a lot of youtube pranks on "gold diggers"...and it's like "well, would you date a fat ugly out of shape guy with no life?" it's a trade off...love is not pure...well to some it is and can be..but most of us...it's a business contract. haha it's all business baby...lols just the reality of it....lols

marketable--she's got to have that feeling that she's got someone special hitting up on herl..so if she declines your request to a date or phone number, she knows you'll have no problem finding another ass somewhere..and that she might not get the same opportunity again or anytime soon..so be so good, that it's hard for her to say "no" even though she probably just broke up with her 10 year relationship b-f about 10 minutes ago...lols

giving too much fock--you can care, but don't just show it too much to the point where it makes you feel more like her father wondering every 10 minutes if she's okay, where is she, does she need help with anything...lol s on the other hand not showing any fock at all is bad too...like anything, moderation and balance is key...

being yourself--to truly be yourself, and at the best self...you become unique, different and genuine. girls like to show off their man to their friends...gal friends anyway..lols and it's like having a one of kind comic book or something...yo u don't ever want to be a fake...i mean she rather have a 25 cent fake diamond ring, knowing it's fake, than a 5k diamond ring she isn't too sure if it's real..lols

well this is it folks...this is why they call me the real life porn star....haha :2funny:

and please folks...use these secrets for good intentions only...unless she agrees to the same thing..lols



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« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2018, 07:18:47 PM »
:2funny: kidding, but it might help some of yall sexually frustrated men out there....i got to admit...i use to be so bad with the ladies...it was to the point where I was desperate enough to seek a dating coach...only to find most of these dating coaches are in it for the business...it's a whole lot of rubbish with some merit..but really all you need to know is.....

1) be a manly man
2) control your hormones
3) control your ego
4) be sexually appealing, this mean don't masturbate or have sex so often. LOls...when you are sexually fuel up, aka horny...you will emit a much stronger sexual appeal...Of course this takes practice to master, cus you still got to know how to control your raging hormones and not come off as a perverted jackass..lols
5) have a decent income
6) know that you are marketable
7) don't give a fock so much
8)  if you can't be yourself, be original at least, like come up with jokes you made up yourself...if you're the type to respond to her texts right away, do so...with confidence..an d not appear like you are too clingy or ass kissing to her..most dating coaches will tell you to make her wait until she misses you so much or she is frustrated..th at's deceptive, and not all girls, usually the good ones will put up with your bullchits...lo ls .keep it simple, know the main keys which I pointed out.....and forget these rubbish dating coaches who feeds you so much information you don't even remember the next day...lols

of course, it takes practice to master all of these...so the chicks in here are good to practice with...I'm sure they don't really mind, as it gives them some practice as well....lols

next up....I will give 8 things every woman need to know to get any guy they want...lols

DaCurse, I've read some of your posts in this Dating section and you're hilarious!  Thanks for the laughs.



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« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2018, 07:26:39 PM »
okay folks! well, got a few pm's from some brothers for me to elaborate more...haha so i'll just elaborate here. ;D

soooo now you know the how and what...but the why's...so this is why these things are essential to improve your game and balls..lols

Manly Man-- a man naturally is the protector. He has to be willing to put himself in harms way to protect her. As a man, if you don't have that willing to die to protect those you love...she will see you as her little brother only. haha a girl is extremely sensitive, despite she may display some aggressive behaviors. She is after all naturally a protector herself, esp when it comes to her children..or future children. so she's not going to want a guy who is a sissy, insecure, and low self esteem. As the man, you got to be much tougher mentally and of course physically than she is...you are the star, and she's just the co-star. she knows this. If you cry during movies, forget about the second date...lols

hormone control-- it's the same concept as asking for something but not making it seem like you're trying too hard or desperate...in side you want something really bad, like going to job interview and you really want the job. Not showing any interest that you "want it" is bad. But showing too much and trying too hard is bad too. This is where you have to master this skill through practice. In most cases most men master this after a thousand failed datings...lols so how do master it? moderation is the key here. a well balance of giving her subtle clues, to obvious clues, and then sometimes make it seem like you don't even care, I why you probably shouldn't anyway because in the end of the day, you can only try to, it's her that ultimately makes the decision.

ego control--ego is man's worst enemy. that sums it up. it's one thing to be egoistic in a sarcastic way. like putting up a act or being a character...li ke most of us dudes in here do...lols but it's been proven time and time again...that having a big ego turns anyone off..so know how to be humble...and don't make it seem like you're better than everyone else.

sex appeal-- this is probably more like first impressions. Like men, when a women see's a dude, she's going to think to herself..."can I see myself in bed with this guy"... :P does he look like he can do the dirty dancing well? haha Don't be that out of shape guy who he knows internally, he's not really confident at all, but's he going to fake it that he's 110% confident. Nor, be the nice guy, that think just because you are nice and deserving, you have nothing to lose..You still got wash the dishes if you want to have something to eat..lols You're asking for some serious awkwardness and girls are naturally more intuitive than men are so they will see right through your pants...haha

income--forget the movies folks...they lied to you...women are not after your money...they just don't want to be with someone who they know will be financially burdened, will live paycheck to paycheck and possibly have a hard time holding a job. sure for young couples that's okay, but still the guy still has to show that he has potential, so he's working hard and studying hard to one day land that dream job. I see a lot of youtube pranks on "gold diggers"...and it's like "well, would you date a fat ugly out of shape guy with no life?" it's a trade off...love is not pure...well to some it is and can be..but most of us...it's a business contract. haha it's all business baby...lols just the reality of it....lols

marketable--she's got to have that feeling that she's got someone special hitting up on herl..so if she declines your request to a date or phone number, she knows you'll have no problem finding another ass somewhere..and that she might not get the same opportunity again or anytime soon..so be so good, that it's hard for her to say "no" even though she probably just broke up with her 10 year relationship b-f about 10 minutes ago...lols

giving too much fock--you can care, but don't just show it too much to the point where it makes you feel more like her father wondering every 10 minutes if she's okay, where is she, does she need help with anything...lol s on the other hand not showing any fock at all is bad too...like anything, moderation and balance is key...

being yourself--to truly be yourself, and at the best self...you become unique, different and genuine. girls like to show off their man to their friends...gal friends anyway..lols and it's like having a one of kind comic book or something...yo u don't ever want to be a fake...i mean she rather have a 25 cent fake diamond ring, knowing it's fake, than a 5k diamond ring she isn't too sure if it's real..lols

well this is it folks...this is why they call me the real life porn star....haha :2funny:

and please folks...use these secrets for good intentions only...unless she agrees to the same thing..lols

Very good advice, and what incredible sense of humor!  You should be a relationship therapist. 



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« Reply #5 on: December 07, 2018, 02:46:43 PM »
DaCurse, I've read some of your posts in this Dating section and you're hilarious!  Thanks for the laughs.

haha, thank you...I wish I can carry the same persona off line sometimes too...lols



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« Reply #6 on: December 10, 2018, 10:17:55 AM »
You don't need any of those things. Just be good looking and BAM! They're all over you.  Back it up with a big package and you're a lifer.



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« Reply #7 on: December 10, 2018, 02:48:02 PM »
You don't need any of those things. Just be good looking and BAM! They're all over you.  Back it up with a big package and you're a lifer.

Depends...Not all go for that...common sense knowledge..FAC T!



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« Reply #8 on: January 22, 2019, 10:46:11 PM »
:2funny: kidding, but it might help some of yall sexually frustrated men out there....i got to admit...i use to be so bad with the ladies...it was to the point where I was desperate enough to seek a dating coach...only to find most of these dating coaches are in it for the business...it's a whole lot of rubbish with some merit..but really all you need to know is.....

1) be a manly man
2) control your hormones
3) control your ego
4) be sexually appealing, this mean don't masturbate or have sex so often. LOls...when you are sexually fuel up, aka horny...you will emit a much stronger sexual appeal...Of course this takes practice to master, cus you still got to know how to control your raging hormones and not come off as a perverted jackass..lols
5) have a decent income
6) know that you are marketable
7) don't give a fock so much
8)  if you can't be yourself, be original at least, like come up with jokes you made up yourself...if you're the type to respond to her texts right away, do so...with confidence..an d not appear like you are too clingy or ass kissing to her..most dating coaches will tell you to make her wait until she misses you so much or she is frustrated..th at's deceptive, and not all girls, usually the good ones will put up with your bullchits...lo ls .keep it simple, know the main keys which I pointed out.....and forget these rubbish dating coaches who feeds you so much information you don't even remember the next day...lols

of course, it takes practice to master all of these...so the chicks in here are good to practice with...I'm sure they don't really mind, as it gives them some practice as well....lols

next up....I will give 8 things every woman need to know to get any guy they want...lols

That's actually the Takeaway.  I learned this in one of my lesson my mentor taught me. It's one of the key to get her to become obsessed.

The goal is to have her invest in you and not the other way around.

When she feels that hole, that gap where your attention used to be. That's when she starts working to win you back.

But in order for her to chase, you've got to feed her with positive emotions. I don't think it's deceptive if you play your game right. 

This is where most guys make the mistake. Most guys will try to be play it cool by ignoring her. They'll act all disinterested, when in reality, it should be the exact opposite.

My mentor taught me to reward her for investing in you. If you continue to do the Takeaway, she gets punished. This will discourage her from investing further.

To keep her investing, you got to reward her investments. You do this by giving her positive emotions.

It's like that one experiment where a scientist use a mouse and a piece of cheese and he would push a red button and the green button and the mouse would respond a certain way to the stimulus. It works the same with humans. I don't have time to explain it.. but it's like that!


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« Reply #9 on: January 23, 2019, 09:40:34 AM »
1. Build attraction
2. Do the Takeaway
3. Reward her investment.

That's how you flip her switch to become obsessed.

See, in a relationship if she make you invest more in her, that investments is what made you obsessed with her. You spend your brain energy thinking about her.

The same exact process that makes a guy obsessed, will make her obsessed. It's reverse psychology.

Now imagine if you flip that 180 degree. ;)



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« Reply #10 on: January 23, 2019, 10:14:00 AM »
there is artificial attraction, chemistry...an d then there is genuine, pure chemistry...ei ther can break or make it....it's like lust and love....

that's what i mean by, the real thing lyes' in fate's hand....becaus e technically, we're all whores in one way or another...and love, for most of us is just a fairy tale waiting to never happen...hahah

artificial chemistry, you have to work, play mind games...etc... .the saying if it feels like work...its not going to work out...it's going to fall apart sooner or later....just like how the truth eventually comes out, and true colors show...

with a pure chemistry....t here's little to no effort...every thing is natural...this genuine bond between two people, might last temporrary as it is only meant to be temporary cus someone's whore in them got the better of them...lols... or it can lead to a life long healthy partnership... .without either one ever having to water and care for the tree every single day....or having to put so much work into it...

happily married couples....the y are natural..they yell, argue and fight each other..they don't think what to say, they just say things and the right things comes out...most of the time...lols... .people from the outside think, they're not going to last...but they do....

artificial married couple......of ten time, the guy has to work so hard every day, just to keep the wife happy...eventu ally one gives up, can't put up with the artificial vibe anymore....ohh, and trust me folks, I see it all too often..why is it? the guy relied of mind tricks, he lied his way into her heart, and when she wises up....it's game over...... ;D

so if you know my 8 rules....or principles rather.....you already know, what it takes to be  "THE MAN".. ;D 8) no games, no waiting...it's just bam, bang, boom....it's either there or not...usually it is...if you're good looking on top of it all. not to say you have to, but at least be presentable in bed....lmao 8)



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« Reply #11 on: January 23, 2019, 10:47:31 AM »
It's true what you're saying.

Guys that really get good with women practice self amusement with everyone they talk to. That way, it becomes their default setting.

Your default setting is the setting you spend most of your day in.

That means that if you consistently spend most of your day in an bad mood, you're going to wake up in that mood, go to sleep in that mood, and your brain will adapt at feeling crappy all the time.

But if you consistently put yourself in an great mood, your brain will get better and better at feeling great.

That's why guys that aren't always self amusing with people won't be able to turn it on with girls.

They're not normally like that, so when they try to "turn their game on," the girl will sense that something's off.

If you practice it with everyone you talk to, even the uglies ones, or a stranger. That way, it becomes your default setting.

So next time when you talk to a hot girl, you won’t have to turn anything on.


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« Reply #12 on: January 23, 2019, 11:06:09 AM »

artificial married couple......of ten time, the guy has to work so hard every day, just to keep the wife happy...eventu ally one gives up, can't put up with the artificial vibe anymore....ohh, and trust me folks, I see it all too often..why is it? the guy relied of mind tricks, he lied his way into her heart, and when she wises up....it's game over...... ;D

That's an interesting one. You see, girls are only attracted to guys they consider better than them.

Most guys go into an interaction trying to seek the approval and the validation of the girl. They go in trying to qualify themselves to her.

They're working for her approval, they’re trying to get her to like them, and they need her validation.

This turns a girl off because it communicates to her that he is lower status than her.

The fact is whoever is giving approval and disapproval holds the position of power in a relationship.

It's almost like to get the job, you've got work really hard to win your boss approval.

Building attraction turns this all around in your favor.



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« Reply #13 on: January 23, 2019, 01:20:51 PM »
don't be mislead what they teach you..those dating coaches they teach you how to be a womanizer, that's about it...it's all deceit bro...haha you ever hear the saying...the chase was fun until you got the prize...you don't know if a girl is genuinely interested in you, or if she's just up for the chase...once you give yourself to her...like men, she got what she wanted and now she is on her way...hahah I won't kid anyone, but I've been there before....you chase, you're persistent...w hen she finally says yes okay, I;ll give you a chance...you're like...well, maybe I didn't really like you as much, but you played mind games and tricked me into chasing you...lmao

this is why, the best approach is...bam bang boom approach...hah a waste no time, and no focks...after 10 minutes, if she gives no fock, fock it and move on....no games, no wait, buts or ifs....10 minutes is all she gets to show she is impress or not...lols



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« Reply #14 on: January 23, 2019, 01:40:31 PM »
you don't want to be known as a womanizer...on ce you do, you're done brotha...

men mentions it more often...but women are no different...yo ur past does matter, and it will effect your current partner...it is psychologicall y undeniable.... ..and the real reason couples split....it's the past that came back to hunt...the psychological damage, once it is done, it is not only done forever, but it haunts.....hah a



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