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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #30 on: January 02, 2021, 12:06:07 PM »
You call me bro one more time, imma have to hurt ya...

My answer today is still the same as before.  I am in love with mine more than lily loves hers.   :2funny:

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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #31 on: September 24, 2021, 12:17:36 AM »
Do I love him? Yes. But despite a decade, I'm still undecided if this was all worth it. In all honesty, in the process, I've lost myself.

If you two still love each other and are still happy, then don't think too much. Just roll with it and let life takes you on its journey. Enjoy every moment of it because you will only get to do it once.



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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #32 on: September 24, 2021, 12:28:05 AM »
I really wish I could say yes. I really wish it could be different, but things are what they are. ..so no. Knowing what I know, I would have made different decisions. The decisions I made would led me to someone else.



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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #33 on: September 27, 2021, 09:44:49 AM »
I really wish I could say yes. I really wish it could be different, but things are what they are. ..so no. Knowing what I know, I would have made different decisions. The decisions I made would led me to someone else.

Yeah, only if we knew then what we know now, right?  Life is such a gamble sometimes.  We  often don't know what we're getting ourselves into.  At the moment it sounded nice but as time goes by, things are revealed to us, and we wish we knew then what we know now.  What sucks is, time waits for no one.  If we make a mistake going with someone, who's to say we won't make a mistake with the next person too?  I mean, we'll be smarter and wiser and know more of what we want and learn to be smarter at looking out for the signs regarding if someone is right for us or not... but people change every day, every week, month, year, etc.  Who we get now is not always who we get later and vice versa.  So, again, it's always a gamble.  You just go with someone who meets most of the things on your list and hope for the best really.  Kinda a dim view but it's the truth.  The couple who can still say "it's great" are just the lucky ones... they're lucky to end up with someone who continues on the same path as them, who has the same goals, etc, and if not, the couple is willing to make compromises and sacrifices to stay together.  That is all that we can hope for.  Someone who will choose us every day despite the changes that we all go through.



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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #34 on: November 22, 2021, 06:53:38 PM »
Do I love him? Yes. But despite a decade, I'm still undecided if this was all worth it. In all honesty, in the process, I've lost myself.
This breaks my heart. I think we've all been there at one time or another.. but rest assured that everyone of us has made decisions in our lives when we are too naive to understand their implications. All the best.



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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #35 on: November 28, 2021, 10:48:58 AM »
There is a time in any couple's marriage that makes them wish they hadn't been with the person they are with.

When I was living with a lady and supporting her and her two kids years ago with all intentions to marry her, yet she kept cheating on me, and when I tried to leave her,
she tried to commit suicide and I had to take care of her at the hospital for two weeks, I did wish I had been with someone else.

I took the time to finish caring for her, ensuring she had a place to live in and her children were properly with her before I left her. Not for someone else
but just to escape. We later detached peacefully without further violence. I had to literally, physically run away and hopped over a fence one night to escape all of that.

You know why I don't have much faith in marriages these days and I have remained single for the longest time, even when I have many opportunities out there.

But now the real one is forthcoming, I think.

Notice I still say "I think."

How sure we are is still unsure, right?

For some, they wish things would have been different but for some they've learned to accept the current person they are with. Share your personal stories.


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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #36 on: November 30, 2021, 11:49:27 AM »
Yes I would and I wish I was less stubborn so he would have less headaches.  But I thank him for loving me as I am.  In that way,  I am bless.  Now, if ask the same question on him, he would probably say NOOOOOOO ;D ;D ;D ;D

Honey, I'm lacking in many ways but I'm also good in other ways so everything sort of balance out....

Thank you for loving me as I am O0 O0



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But true love is a durable fire, In the mind ever burning, Never sick, never old, never dead, From itself never turning.<br />               --Sir Walter Raleigh

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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #37 on: November 30, 2021, 07:41:10 PM »
Rare. 

But even here he doesn't want to do the bad times again, just the good times he's longing for.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZ3VbZz4iAs


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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #38 on: December 01, 2021, 09:14:01 AM »
Beautiful song and one can tell he misses her still.

Opps, I already replied to this thread b4 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D 



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Re: If you could start over again would you be with the person you are with?
« Reply #39 on: December 01, 2021, 03:06:58 PM »
The only part i would do again is the sex part.  ;D ;D ;D ;D. Other thing is a big no no..



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