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Offline baddabing

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Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« on: September 30, 2018, 10:11:57 AM »
A family member who starts doing something in the house then runs off upstairs or to other parts of the house to worry about something else and yells for another person to help out with what he/she started.  When he/she comes back and finds that he/she isn't satisfied with the help result she got from that other person.  She then will start to nag and complain about the other person not getting it right.  This is not just a 1 or 2 time thing, it's a repeated day in day out reoccurrence issue created by that unhappy nagging person brought onto others within the household.

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He/she cooks some meat in the oven, runs away and yells for another person to looks after it.  That other person notices the meat is cooked and ready, help takes it out and puts it on a plate.  He/she comes back, instead of being appreciative starts nagging, yelling...urrh h!  Why can't you get it right, you're supposed to also cover the meat with something too!  omg! omg!!!!!


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Offline ZDN

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Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2018, 08:28:23 AM »
yes...it is acceptable, if she asks for help and the help isn't good enough.  the assistance that was asked of, didn't require one to be a rocket scientist...ju st common sense.  the help was an half-a$$ed job, it would cause one to be irritated.

if i asked my gf to wash the dishes and she only washed them but did not rinse...yes, she's getting spanked! ha!



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Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« Reply #2 on: October 01, 2018, 08:53:36 AM »
I would say, mother father......do it yourself then. 



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Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« Reply #3 on: October 01, 2018, 03:56:34 PM »
Depends if her nagging has a point and she seems to be multitasking which means she could use more help around the house.



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Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2018, 11:20:12 AM »
She's not a good nyab tshiab.



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Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?
« Reply #5 on: October 13, 2018, 02:45:34 AM »
Are these menial tasks?

If one doesn't know how to perform the task then just ask that person. It could be that she's a perfectionist. Know when to assist and when to opt out.

Example, if she's running upstairs to grab her phone, volunteer to do that so she can check the meat herself.



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