Everyone gets a present.
Blood is thicker than water
If they gift your children, you do the same for their kids.
Don't play favoritism. Gives one, give all unless they naughty.
As long as your budget allows. Make a pac with your spouse that you both shall not gift one another but uses that budget to gift others first.
Gift your father mother inlaw? I wouldn't after you marry her but I would to get cookie points if y'all are still dating.
Bottom line, y'all Hmong got too many siblings and each one has a pack load of their own