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What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« on: December 27, 2018, 02:21:50 PM »
Here's one that I thought was very nice:

Sorry, you should've met me sooner. I'm taken and already happy with him now.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2018, 02:35:37 PM »
Here's one that I thought was very nice:

Sorry, you should've met me sooner. I'm taken and already happy with him now.

In sales, they taught you how to throw come backs.

A hmong girl in MN said that to me.  I looked at her ring and told her I can get her a bigger one cuz she deserves that much. 

I like to make them think for themselves cuz obviously, thinking hurts the head so we tend not to think. 




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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #2 on: December 27, 2018, 03:55:51 PM »
In sales, they taught you how to throw come backs.

A hmong girl in MN said that to me.  I looked at her ring and told her I can get her a bigger one cuz she deserves that much. 

I like to make them think for themselves cuz obviously, thinking hurts the head so we tend not to think.
;D Dude, my opinion is... if she's turning you down, she ain't gonna change her mind because of a witty comeback line. Just take it nicely and move on before she lays it on thick and wipes the floor with your ego. lol. O0



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #3 on: December 28, 2018, 03:10:28 AM »
Depends ...



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #4 on: January 01, 2019, 03:45:49 PM »
Here's one that I thought was very nice:

Sorry, you should've met me sooner. I'm taken and already happy with him now.

I normally, just say "sorry, I'm taken", but I like yours much more.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #5 on: January 02, 2019, 01:17:03 PM »
I normally, just say "sorry, I'm taken", but I like yours much more.
Had a girl tell me something similar once.

The story:
I was walking passed her on my way out at the Fresno HNY and I had a rose with me that I haven't given to anyone that day. I handed it to her and told her that she deserved a rose to match beauty.  My cousin rushed me off because we were leaving so I just left her with that line.

Couple of years later, I saw her again.  A friend of mine took me to her house to visit her and I didn't remember her but she remembered me very clearly. By then, she had a boyfriend already.  She said she's seen me around the soccer tournaments all the time, but I never came over to talk to her again.  She said she used to dream of being with me because I was so nice to her when she needed it but she's currently got a fiancee and they were planning on getting married soon so we can only be friends.  I never saw her again after that night.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #6 on: January 02, 2019, 02:01:15 PM »
Had a girl tell me something similar once.

The story:
I was walking passed her on my way out at the Fresno HNY and I had a rose with me that I haven't given to anyone that day. I handed it to her and told her that she deserved a rose to match beauty.  My cousin rushed me off because we were leaving so I just left her with that line.

Couple of years later, I saw her again.  A friend of mine took me to her house to visit her and I didn't remember her but she remembered me very clearly. By then, she had a boyfriend already.  She said she's seen me around the soccer tournaments all the time, but I never came over to talk to her again.  She said she used to dream of being with me because I was so nice to her when she needed it but she's currently got a fiancee and they were planning on getting married soon so we can only be friends.  I never saw her again after that night.
so, she friendzone you?



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #7 on: January 03, 2019, 03:05:17 AM »
Depends on the situation in my experience but I prefer a simple but truthful response over a nice lie response...For example, I prefer a simple but honest "no" to a "I have a boyfriend already" lie...What's worst is the wishy washy lies like.. "maybe"... ;D



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #8 on: January 03, 2019, 08:48:28 AM »
I would just be straight with him..."sorry, i'm not gay...but do you have a sister?" ha!



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #9 on: January 03, 2019, 11:14:46 AM »
Worst is when they go that boyfriend route but at the same time, giving you that pity look like a I'm sorry.  Thinking back, those are all fake.  My game was weak or maybe I'm not their type.  Can't force someone to love you unless you got a big Dix.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #10 on: January 03, 2019, 12:39:59 PM »
so, she friendzone you?
nah. It was more of a final good bye.  ;D



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2019, 12:41:15 PM »
Depends on the situation in my experience but I prefer a simple but truthful response over a nice lie response...For example, I prefer a simple but honest "no" to a "I have a boyfriend already" lie...What's worst is the wishy washy lies like.. "maybe"... ;D
more like laughs at you for the attempt then skips off with girlfriends giggling all the way.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2019, 12:44:03 PM »
Worst is when they go that boyfriend route but at the same time, giving you that pity look like a I'm sorry.  Thinking back, those are all fake.  My game was weak or maybe I'm not their type.  Can't force someone to love you unless you got a big Dix.
daymit, if only some of us guys knew about the big dix clause back when we were younger. we'd be pulling out the big dic like a wad of cash, every time a girl said nope.  :2funny:



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #13 on: January 03, 2019, 01:10:06 PM »
daymit, if only some of us guys knew about the big dix clause back when we were younger. we'd be pulling out the big dic like a wad of cash, every time a girl said nope.  :2funny:

Well back in them days, the boys in the bay are lusting for a coffee shop chick cuz them girls are hot.  My boy got marbles on his shaft and he got himself such chick.  Cot dam cum stains on his sheets daily. 

They say size don't matter but as you grow older and they stop choking, it does matter.



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Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?
« Reply #14 on: January 03, 2019, 02:33:57 PM »
yeah, heard about that marble in the foreskin trick.  Never wanted to try it.  I don't vandalize myself for any chick.



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