Quite sad, I do notice this alot with the newer generation.
There is something that has been lost. People are just more selfish nowadays. It's sad kids nowadays don't really care about third parents, it's not even really about caring, it's more like I think they just don't like to be bothered.
You know what the sad thing is? If third friend like non Hmong as them for help they would go help them.
It may be that the younger generation has such a different network of friends and people they rather be around nowadays that they don't care too much for third own family and people anymore. Quite sad.