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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #15 on: March 12, 2019, 12:16:50 AM »
If you broke up with your partner = they are an ex.

If you broke up with your ex, that means you got together.

In life, if a decision is made...honor it.  Stop changing your mind and circling about it.

Move on, move forward.

anyways...the material stuff is just stuff.  It's the memory, the intention, the feeling that you linger onto when you associated it with that material stuff.

Best of luck and try to move forward.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #16 on: March 12, 2019, 04:05:21 PM »

It is not as bad as them having their ex photoshoot in a suitcase and he claims to have forgotten the codes but yet, kept the suitcase around.

True. It could be worse...



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #17 on: March 12, 2019, 04:10:16 PM »
If you broke up with your partner = they are an ex.

If you broke up with your ex, that means you got together.

In life, if a decision is made...honor it.  Stop changing your mind and circling about it.

Move on, move forward.

anyways...the material stuff is just stuff.  It's the memory, the intention, the feeling that you linger onto when you associated it with that material stuff.

Best of luck and try to move forward.

You're right. It's not healthy to think too much about it since you can't change their mind.  However, you could learn from it and know that it's the last time you're buying a gift that expensive for that person.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #18 on: March 12, 2019, 04:11:32 PM »
Well,  now you know how much you meant to him.  :2funny:

You made the right decision to leave him.

You've picked the right time to leave me, "Lucy."--by K. Rogers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtXGrbkVHtQ

It was definitely a good life lesson.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #19 on: March 15, 2019, 10:54:16 AM »
That means that he has come back to collect more things to sell on ebay. Sad bu true for some.  ;D

I guess he must be pretty desperate for cash then.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #20 on: March 16, 2019, 12:29:37 PM »
When you break up with an ex and noticed that he's selling your $800 Christmas gift on ebay, should you be sad or happy?
I would like to think that whether a gift is $2.00 or $2,000.00, there shouldn't be any strings attached. What they do with it, in any time, after a breakup is their choice. I'm rather indifferent and hope they would feel the same.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #21 on: March 19, 2019, 12:56:19 PM »
I would like to think that whether a gift is $2.00 or $2,000.00, there shouldn't be any strings attached. What they do with it, in any time, after a breakup is their choice. I'm rather indifferent and hope they would feel the same.

I hope you don't give them your mother's wedding ring then!



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #22 on: March 20, 2019, 08:13:46 AM »
My mother doesn't have a wedding ring so I couldn't even if I wanted to. If someone was going to give me gifts along with some fine prints then might as well call it what it is: a transaction.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #23 on: March 20, 2019, 10:36:38 AM »
My mother doesn't have a wedding ring so I couldn't even if I wanted to. If someone was going to give me gifts along with some fine prints then might as well call it what it is: a transaction.

So there is no such thing as a free lunch then?



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #24 on: March 20, 2019, 11:45:29 AM »
Call it what you may. Bottom line is, don't give expensive gifts if you're going to attach terms and conditions. It is rather unfair and selfish to the receiving party who may or may not know your intentions; either give it away (yes, give it away cus that's what gifts are) or don't give it at all or buy something incredibly cheap (I highly recommend a kit kat, that way you'll have a piece and they have a piece not to mention how air thin the crispy wafer is with just about the right amount of chocolate and crunch.. it's truly the epitome of a candy bar!) hmm.. candy bar is good.. I must be tired. It's late. I'm going to bed.   



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #25 on: March 20, 2019, 12:27:38 PM »
Call it what you may. Bottom line is, don't give expensive gifts if you're going to attach terms and conditions. It is rather unfair and selfish to the receiving party who may or may not know your intentions; either give it away (yes, give it away cus that's what gifts are) or don't give it at all or buy something incredibly cheap (I highly recommend a kit kat, that way you'll have a piece and they have a piece not to mention how air thin the crispy wafer is with just about the right amount of chocolate and crunch.. it's truly the epitome of a candy bar!) hmm.. candy bar is good.. I must be tired. It's late. I'm going to bed.

You're right. If the husband bought the wife a brand new sports car and after the divorce, she gives the new car as a gift to her new boyfriend, the husband should just be happy for them.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #26 on: March 22, 2019, 07:57:17 AM »
You're right. If the husband bought the wife a brand new sports car and after the divorce, she gives the new car as a gift to her new boyfriend, the husband should just be happy for them.
quite the truth...gift, time and virginity...once you give it away, you can never have it back! ha!



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #27 on: March 22, 2019, 04:00:19 PM »
quite the truth...gift, time and virginity...once you give it away, you can never have it back! ha!

Virginity...lo l.  I think we should be extra careful about giving that one away.



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #28 on: March 25, 2019, 05:11:47 AM »
You're right. If the husband bought the wife a brand new sports car and after the divorce, she gives the new car as a gift to her new boyfriend, the husband should just be happy for them.
Absolutely! Now you're getting it...



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Re: Breaking up with an ex
« Reply #29 on: March 25, 2019, 01:23:13 PM »
quite the truth...gift, time and virginity...once you give it away, you can never have it back! ha!
oddly enough, there are girls who just want to lose their virginity so they don't have to deal with the awkwardness.  They'd give it to strangers that they just met before going back to date the guy they like. 



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