Someone on the wife's side passed away. They're still of the old religion. The relatives called and ask to "tuaj hlub". What does that entail? what are the options and be nice if someone can give details of what the ritual involves, what not to do and what's okay to do. Thanks in advance.
In simplicity, come help. Provide manual labor.
If you're in the know...take charge. If you don't, just be helpful and provide manual labor, or organization planning to assist the "shaman"
What you should do...is greet the family members and don't forget to provide some offering money.
If you're good with crafting those gloss paper thingy...bring a nice big one.