why is it wrong, to love our wife??......i don't understand

[hmgROCK]

You are hanging out with hmong dudes.

I know cuz I just hung out with mine on father's day.  They don't talk about them oversea hoes cuz they don't walk the line of their fathers. 

We talk about our upcoming days off for the july 4th holiday and yes, their wives are coming along.

One guy is going to mn and wanted us to join him.  I don't think any one of us can escape well except for me cuz I'm not married and my family is there so I have backup waiting for me when I'm over there.  The guy is not there to creep though.  Him and his wife are kinda off the relationship and he's looking for a replacement to be a surrogate mother to his kids.

lol

let them drink with me
im easy to talk to
people just like to tell me all their secret
i don't know why

don't even have to be oversea

here in the USA
i know plenty of dude whose been having secret relationship

[hmgROCK]

In my profession, if you pursue a woman too much to get her attention, it's considered harassment. That's why I don't  pursue women. If I give them one hint and they don't know it, I'm done.

it take a long time, man
hmong girl ain't that easy
don't think you can just pick them up at the bar and bring them home, and do whatever you want
that'wishful thinking
that's white folks stuff

 

it's about building relationship and trust
these things takes times

you know 1,000 miles (sounder)

[Reporter]

A woman sent me a sad note after she got married to another guy that  pursued her more consistently. She said a woman does not pursue a man and that the man is supposed to do all the pursuing and she already made herself available for me to pursue but I just didn't do enough.

That's the second woman who said that to me. The other one said why can't I be like other guys and run all over her. She, too, has married someone else.

They are decent women. In fact, gorgeous and well-to-do, too.

But my legal mind tells me not to pursue them if I've given them a hint and they just don't get it...

Okay, they can pursue me. I won't press charges. lol

it take a long time, man
hmong girl ain't that easy
don't think you can just pick them up at the bar and bring them home, and do whatever you want
that'wishful thinking
that's white folks stuff

 

it's about building relationship and trust
these things takes times

you know 1,000 miles (sounder)

[hmgROCK]

A woman sent me a sad note after she got married to another guy that  pursued her more consistently. She said a woman does not pursue a man and that the man is supposed to do all the pursuing and she already made herself available for me to pursue but I just didn't do enough.

That's the second woman who said that to me. The other one said why can't I be like other guys and run all over her. She, too, has married someone else.

They are decent women. In fact, gorgeous and well-to-do, too.

But my legal mind tells me not to pursue them if I've given them a hint and they just don't get it...

Okay, they can pursue me. I won't press charges. lol

Bro

That woman friend of yours just confirmed what I just say

Don’t be like that dude, night
And expect them to be faithful and loyal to you
If you don’t talk to them for weeks and months

Communication
Building relationships and trust

Least you can do is text them

[theking]

I was drinking and eating with the boys
Most of these guys are married folks, with 2-3 kids
they were talking about their oversea girlfriend
and girlfriends that they meet here in the USA too

the focus than shift over to me
they started asking me where my mistress is and all that

i told them, I don't have one
because I love my wife really much
i've been with my old lady for a long time now
as we age, she looks even more beautiful

some of us hmong guys,
we just want to love our wifes
treat them right and stuff

Perhaps you're hanging with the wrong crowd?

LOVE IT!!! 

[hmgROCK]

I don't understand those guys either. They want to send hundreds of dollars to these fake girls but they can't treat a homie out to a bowl of pho

I don't know what's worst. Fake girls or fake homies.

Yea bro,

Im always the one bringing the food and liquor
These brothers, Can’t seem to figure it out
Being played by them sweet talking voices on the phone

Some hmong folk say
Those hmong laos can cast magic love spell
To make you go crazy for them

[Reporter]

I've seen and fought enough cases. I'll just wait for the right person to come along.

Thanks.

Bro

That woman friend of yours just confirmed what I just say

Don’t be like that dude, night
And expect them to be faithful and loyal to you
If you don’t talk to them for weeks and months

Communication
Building relationships and trust

Least you can do is text them

[dlabtsi_os]

I was drinking and eating with the boys
Most of these guys are married folks, with 2-3 kids
they were talking about their oversea girlfriend
and girlfriends that they meet here in the USA too

the focus than shift over to me
they started asking me where my mistress is and all that

i told them, I don't have one
because I love my wife really much
i've been with my old lady for a long time now
as we age, she looks even more beautiful

some of us hmong guys,
we just want to love our wifes
treat them right and stuff

There is nothing wrong with you. You will realize women don't mind men doing that. Women are more social than men. The only women that tends to not like what your buddies are the more moral and authoritative background. Also usually the relationship with the other girl isn't really serious relationship, so the wife is threaten. Although it is disgusting to some. As long you keep your calm and know how to choose your life you should do fine. Men want their women to make them feel like kings all the time.

[theking]

Im always the one bringing the food and liquor

Doubt it unless you went "underground" again to steal it too..or bring the "spoilage" stuff you found in the dumpster..

[ProudLao]

I was drinking and eating with the boys
Most of these guys are married folks, with 2-3 kids
they were talking about their oversea girlfriend
and girlfriends that they meet here in the USA too

the focus than shift over to me
they started asking me where my mistress is and all that

i told them, I don't have one
because I love my wife really much
i've been with my old lady for a long time now
as we age, she looks even more beautiful

some of us hmong guys,
we just want to love our wifes
treat them right and stuff

No pic no P no care since it’s not legit lol

[theking]

No pic no P no care since it’s not legit lol

 

He also got called out publicly by Reporter for that too...