1st is to learn what men in her country are doing and you do the opposite. Like hmong men, they drink like no other. Funeral drinking, wedding drinking, with their boyx, they try to be top dog in drinking. I say to drink less so you don't act like a fool. You don't want your "others" in this case, my hmong girl to think that I'm showing hmong men traits which will defeat the reason why she dating me and not a hmong guy.
2. You have to learn about her cultural food and loving it. When it comes to hmong food, I loved it. I prefer kapoon over my pho. Been eating pho for most of my life and I'm not down to eating more pho. I love you guys hmong pepper. That stuff is like crack to me. It is like ketchup. I add that stuff to anything that I eat. Show interest in her cultural food and enjoying it and she will praise you for it. It is probably the one thing she likes in a hmong guy so I give her that credit cuz I'm liking it too.
3. Love her parents like your own parents. IF anything, she is big with family. Hmong have too many make up events that you can have a hmong festivity on every weekend. I am not hmong but if I can show her that I have respect for her elders, that would win me some kudos points. So if you are dating a white blondie chick, hee haw to her redneck parents. See that america got talent azn guy from texas that won? Well that's the redneck azn that you should try to be if you are dating a white chick. Get a hick accent if you may. As for myself, I say naw john to her parents. I speak hmong to her parents and they will correct my poor pronunciation. AT least I show her parents that I'm learning and on progress to be a good inlaw.
So if you want to date a chick that is not of your culture, you have to get those qualifications
. She is probably fed up with her own men of her culture so you don't need to rub them traits of the men that she despises. Show her that you are different while at the same time that you are not too different. Keep the good traits and eliminate the bad. Doing thus will get you in the zone and she will never leave you alone.