Sharing another thought regarding spousal killings. People get so obsessed with another person where that person takes up so much space in their hearts and minds. If the thoughts about another person are positive then by all means but if another person gives you so many negative thoughts and makes your life so sad and miserable... then probably consider that maybe that person is not good for you. A lot of times how we feel can be controlled by our minds. In the moment it's hard to remember but if we train our minds enough times to focus on the big picture, we don't have to be victims to bad/depressing feelings about another person. "If someone makes you feel more bad than good about life then they are not for you." Took a long time even for me to understand the value of these words but these words can shape the direction of a person's life and where they end up. Staying in an unhealthy relationship can reduce your happiness, reduce your quality of life, and even shorten your life. To the sisters, if a man wants out of the relationship and wants to seek a relationship with someone else, let him. To the brothers, if a woman wants out of the relationship and wants to seek a relationship with someone else, let her. Give each other the freedom to be happy even if it's not with each other.