theking
You claim he has common sense. Where is the common sense to do his research thoroughly, family tree, genetics (like you said), talk around communities about her family roots, etc? A respectful wise man would cover all his bases right? A man who truly love his girl would do things thoroughly (family tree, genetic, etc) to protect her and the relationship and stop the bashing. Exactly it’s too much work and not important. Seems like you over estimated his common sense qualification. Like I said, these people who claim to have fallen in love with the same last name Hmong girl don’t give two cents crap about doing any research completely because it will defeat the purpose of tapping dat azz to begin with especially if the results don’t come back in your liking. On top of that, a person who does this kind of thing without any dignity and/or stop to think about the repercussions has a disturbing mindset don’t matter how you look at it because that would make a stepmom, stepsister, step-whatever at high risk. Which lead to my conclusion again and again, “I wonder what else goes on behind closed doors” those that think like this.
He better make sure this relationship work out because it would be hard to find a decent good level headed Hmong girl who probably would say, “aren’t you that singer who dated your own same last name”, follow with, “sorry my parents and clan can’t accept that”. Again, a dumb azz NO COMMON SENSE move to date same last name. The repercussion KILLED IT. Don't worry too much tho, although guys who does this might blow their future chances with most level headed Hmong girls, there's still ton of idiots/hoes flooded everywhere. Since doing a thorough research is not important because the D craving is priority, all hope is not lost yet. I'm sure they can still end up with winners who had 10+ bf but never married once. Shhh.......we called these hoes in my time lol.
Anyways, don’t be the person who travels to another state/country met a hot same last name Hmong girl and bang the lights out of that person thinking it’s okay for “two non related strangers” to make out especially in another far away place. Later to find out she was your dad’s brother daughter from another state that you didn’t know about. Like many cases of Hmong dating same last name Hmong, it really has nothing to do with anything but simply the LACK of COMMON SENSE for not doing a thorough research first and being horny af when the opportunity present itself.
Here’s the truth, when someone tells me they are dating the same last name Hmong girl, it automatically tells me that person was in it for the wrong reasons. Everything else is just another excuse to keep banging her because at the moment the banging is so good. NONE and I mean NONE of these people give a crap to do any research because nobody wants a REASON to stop tapping that azz. I see right thru the BS excuses. I use to know someone, who later confessed, it's the banging that got him hooked so the excuses start flying out his mouth. Years later after the drama and confession he even agree that people who do this is doing it for the wrong reason. Funny thing was, I wasn't surprise because people who does shady/on the grey area/bad things will always be in denial at the moment and will find excuses to keep hacking away.