Advertisement

Author Topic: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife  (Read 4399 times)

0 Members and 2 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline hmgROCK

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 35757
  • The Hmong Nostradamus
  • Respect: +216
    • View Profile
you take in the wife plus your brother's kids

you don't have to do this
but if you love them....

you will



this old youtube clip does a better job at explain the hmong culture

 start at  2:10
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY


« Last Edit: February 18, 2020, 10:23:14 AM by hmgROCK »

Like this post: 0
God did not created man...man created god

Adverstisement

Offline ProudLao

  • Mekong In My Heart
  • Administrator
  • *****
  • Posts: 10281
  • Still a little boy running free in Laos
  • Respect: +555
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2020, 09:12:13 AM »
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol



Like this post: 0
I take refuge in the Buddha.
I take refuge in the dharma.
I take refuge in the sangha.

Theravada

Offline Reporter

  • Administrator
  • *****
  • Posts: 84275
  • Pey-Pey and NiNi's 1st Snow Kid.
  • Respect: +562
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2020, 09:44:06 AM »
No way. That’s icky.



Like this post: 0
"...
The snooping eye sees everything."--Ono No Komachi, Japanese Poetess (emphasis)

Offline hmgROCK

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 35757
  • The Hmong Nostradamus
  • Respect: +216
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2020, 10:24:17 AM »
this youtube clip does a better job at explaining the hmong culture

start at 2:10

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY




Like this post: 0
God did not created man...man created god

Offline Dok_Champa

  • Sr. Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 8234
  • Respect: +200
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #4 on: February 18, 2020, 11:25:59 AM »
I still see this happening mainly to keep w/ traditions but enforcement is consensual.  The reason behind is everybody wants to know the widow and her family is being taken care of.  Even if she is not given to the husband's brother,  a family representative will make a promise to look after her family.  Sometimes they will say things like, "We know we can never replace our brother but we will make sure she and her family will not go hungry, has roof over their head, something something...et c.."



Like this post: 0
But true love is a durable fire, In the mind ever burning, Never sick, never old, never dead, From itself never turning.<br />               --Sir Walter Raleigh

Offline DuMa

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 17907
  • Gender: Male
  • -(>^_^<)- 052806
  • Respect: +742
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #5 on: February 18, 2020, 01:03:58 PM »
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now? 



Like this post: 0
X_____________ ______________ ______________ ___

Offline theking

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 58889
  • Respect: +1322
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #6 on: February 18, 2020, 06:02:27 PM »
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol

No way. That’s icky.

Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now? 

 ;D ;D ;D



Like this post: 0

Offline hmgROCK

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 35757
  • The Hmong Nostradamus
  • Respect: +216
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #7 on: February 18, 2020, 11:38:00 PM »
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now?

Yes
He would have two wive
You will address them as 1st and 2nd wife
Can sleep with her if he wants too

In the old days it common for hmong guys to have multiple wives



Like this post: 0
God did not created man...man created god

Offline WildRedLotus

  • PH Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 47
  • Respect: +8
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #8 on: February 19, 2020, 11:59:50 AM »
This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.



Like this post: 0

Offline hmgROCK

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 35757
  • The Hmong Nostradamus
  • Respect: +216
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #9 on: February 19, 2020, 10:52:56 PM »
This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.

lol

you will be suprised
there are hmong guy in the US
that have 2nd and 3rd wives




Like this post: 0
God did not created man...man created god

Offline theking

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 58889
  • Respect: +1322
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #10 on: February 20, 2020, 01:09:52 AM »
lol

you will be suprised
there are hmong guy in the US
that have 2nd and 3rd wives

I see reading comp issues again like what other PH members pointed out...

WildRedLotus didn't say there's *NO* one that practice it...

Instead she said: "This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined."



Like this post: 0

Offline DuMa

  • Elite Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 17907
  • Gender: Male
  • -(>^_^<)- 052806
  • Respect: +742
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #11 on: February 20, 2020, 07:33:44 AM »
So no case of the guy killing his brother in law just to be with his hot wife?

Oh wait, that'll make her your hot sister   :2funny:



Like this post: 0
X_____________ ______________ ______________ ___

Offline Mr_Mechanic

  • Jr. Poster
  • ***
  • Posts: 4068
  • Respect: +338
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #12 on: February 20, 2020, 08:03:09 AM »
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol

This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.

Yog!!



Like this post: 0

Offline Hung_Low

  • Sr. Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 9591
  • Gender: Male
  • Respect: +245
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #13 on: November 02, 2023, 09:05:43 AM »
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now?

No, they usually give it to a close family/relative that is single. And only resort to a married person if the family really want to keep the DIL and the children.



Like this post: 0
- Maxi pad not greatest thing on earth but next to it.

Online Visualmon

  • Sr. Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 6591
  • Gender: Male
  • Respect: +366
    • View Profile
Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
« Reply #14 on: November 02, 2023, 09:26:44 PM »
The video ain't no Secret War. What about it sooo secret? :idiot2: :2funny:



Like this post: 0
There's no need for you to hide. I already saw you.

 

Advertisements