There are billions of people on this planet and we are only allowed to be with just 1? that is impossible to grasp
although the law of this land allows us to marry just one but when it comes to dating, we can date plenty. Nothing illegal here
Soulmate is not something I'm looking for in a trait. You have your list of 10 of what you want and he too will have his list of 10 and guess what? You are not on it.
So while you keep the positivity to look for this soulmate or a comparable partner, the one for you will miss you by a mile cuz if you don't stop walking while looking, he will never catches up to you.
So my idea is to stop looking for a soulmate. It will come to you by accident and before you know it, you are stuck with one another like you are made for each other.