I like the engagement idea for reasons like this

[theking]

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Disappointment Was All Around on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. ... On 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Deavan, the two kids and her mom made their way to the new apartment Jihoon secured for them to call home. "It looks like the ghetto of Korea," Deavan said in a confessional. Deavan's mom said she was really disappointed with her son-in-law, that the apartment wasn't a place for a family. The pressure seemed to be getting to Jihoon. "I'm going to go insane," he said. He acknowledged he let everyone down and said he was prepared to pay for everything from this point forward…but still has no money. Deavan said if he was honest with her, she wouldn't have come. So, she planned to go home with her mom.

[theking]

Kind of like buying a car, test drive it before you commit...and hope there's no buyer's remorse down the road..