Why men avoid conflicts?

[Rebel]

Why do men avoid confrontation/conflict?? I don't know how people can be in "serious" relationships and not question anything because in their mind everything have to be happy and dandy all the time... When a conflict arises, they let the situation naturally die down by ignoring the subject... then come back around at a later time to see if your still piss off.... who's does that shit? Is this even a relationship? Is it bc they simply don't care enough? Or are they scare you might break up with them? What TF is going through a guys mind when they do this?

[DuMa]

1st.  It sucks to be you

2nd.  WE told you so

3rd.  What do you want us to say? 

We shall wait for the next one.  It never gets old.   

[Rebel]

1st.  It sucks to be you

2nd.  WE told you so

3rd.  What do you want us to say? 

We shall wait for the next one.  It never gets old.   

Hahahahah should have listened ***crying like a baby lol

[Rebel]

After being in this relationship for almost a year I came to a conclusion that I only want a sugar daddy now.., no more relationship. But I know that fool gonna come back to check on me later lmao

[ProudLao]

If you think real hard on it, I’m sure you will find the answer. It’s different with everyone. Some guys gets tired with the same arguments/confrontations. He may not want to deal with it at the time just to avoid the situation from getting worse. I believe he does care if he puts up with it this long. When a guy stops caring, he’s out the door with the next episode.  Once he’s calm he may be able to deal with it much better. It’s a two way streets remember that.

[Rebel]

If you think real hard on it, I’m sure you will find the answer. It’s different with everyone. Some guys gets tired with the same arguments/confrontations. He may not want to deal with it at the time just to avoid the situation from getting worse. I believe he does care if he puts up with it this long. When a guy stops caring, he’s out the door with the next episode.  Once he’s calm he may be able to deal with it much better. It’s a two way streets remember that.

I've try thinking real hard but it doesnt make sense to not give me a simple answer. I mean we rarely of fight bc conflicts are avoided....but he stone walls me and withdrawals and ignores me so nothing ever get talked about. Then he comes around when I forgot about it. I'm beginning to think that we both suck at communicating or maybe he doesn't care about it enough...

[DuMa]

You guys are just buying time..... until the next big thing will show up and the cycle will repeats itself again...

More reason why your case is beyond help


Wife wants to divorce “perfect” husband for loving her too much, never fighting & cleaning the house without being asked
https://www.therakyatpost.com/2019/08/26/wife-wants-to-divorce-perfect-husband-for-loving-her-too-much-never-fighting-cleaning-the-house-without-being-asked/

[Rebel]

You guys are just buying time..... until the next big thing will show up and the cycle will repeats itself again...

More reason why your case is beyond help


Wife wants to divorce “perfect” husband for loving her too much, never fighting & cleaning the house without being asked
https://www.therakyatpost.com/2019/08/26/wife-wants-to-divorce-perfect-husband-for-loving-her-too-much-never-fighting-cleaning-the-house-without-being-asked/

Oh, so I'm not the ONE? Lol I'm fine with that. I don't want perfect, I want to be challenged. Lmao I want a man who will challenged me, not try to give me a perfect life.

[Rebel]

Ok maybe I want perfect but with the right man lol

[VillainousHero]

In general, women who wants to fight men, will almost always lose.  That's just the way the universe works.  Don't ask me, ask the universe.

Anyway nothing truly works out with conflict.  With conflict, there's always going to be a win/loss scenario.  Again that's just the way the universe works.

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Personally I don't like conflicts.  I don't really care for people starting arguments out of the blue.  When it involves me, I'm gonna always be right and they're always gonna be wrong.  I'm gonna always win the argument and they're always gonna lose the argument.  That's the only way the argument is going to stop.  That's just the way how the universe works.