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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #15 on: January 12, 2021, 12:33:24 PM »
I read only 6 kids total, not 9 and of the 6, one is now dead. Regardless of the number, this is truly a heartbreaking and gut wrenching story. No one deserves to die at the hand of another person, let alone, to die at the hands of her own mother, someone who was supposed to nurture and feed her.

I will not judge her because I am not qualify to. But I will say if you're in the same position as she is, if you find your values and boundaries to be so weak as to make you to want to beat or harm a child, please get help. Get help for the child or help for yourself, but please seek help because that child is your responsibility until you say otherwise.
   

I believe it is 6 kids.

No excuses for her.



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #16 on: January 12, 2021, 01:30:20 PM »
She gonna plead insanity or mirror her case with all them other tragic baby abuser cases.  PTSD for motherhood

Looks like the kids were in foster care but she got them back.  Red flag from the beginning if you lost them to foster group homes. 

I would like to hear stories about how them kids were raised in group homes, foster care but grew up to be someone super duper extraordinary.   Life got cheated.  Not fair and now i'm depressed. 



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #17 on: January 12, 2021, 04:39:25 PM »
She gonna plead insanity or mirror her case with all them other tragic baby abuser cases.  PTSD for motherhood

Looks like the kids were in foster care but she got them back.  Red flag from the beginning if you lost them to foster group homes. 

I would like to hear stories about how them kids were raised in group homes, foster care but grew up to be someone super duper extraordinary.   Life got cheated.  Not fair and now i'm depressed.

The legal system failed these innocent kids.

Where are the uncles, aunts, and grandparents in this story? No one steps in and help?



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #18 on: January 12, 2021, 05:53:05 PM »
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9 children in the house. Dayum! Don't know how she can handle the more babies on the way.

ProudLaos, you dork, why you had to edit my comment? It's not my word I want to speak like you twisted. That's not my personality.  ;D ::)

Here's my original that ProudLaos omitted.
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9 children in the house. Dayum! Don't know how her pu$$-$ay can handle when more babies on the way.



I read only 6 kids total, not 9 and of the 6, one is now dead. Regardless of the number, this is truly a heartbreaking and gut wrenching story. No one deserves to die at the hand of another person, let alone, to die at the hands of her own mother, someone who was supposed to nurture and feed her.

I will not judge her because I am not qualify to. But I will say if you're in the same position as she is, if you find your values and boundaries to be so weak as to make you to want to beat or harm a child, please get help. Get help for the child or help for yourself, but please seek help because that child is your responsibility until you say otherwise.

Sad to see you don't qualify to judge her since you're Christian. Let you know Peter judged Simon the magician he's not qualified to have the power of God since Jesus said let children come to him. So Peter has the right to judge others then you should too when you're separating yourself from this murderer's way.  :knuppel2: ::)



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #19 on: January 12, 2021, 06:07:04 PM »
Where do we donate $$$



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #20 on: January 12, 2021, 08:16:17 PM »
ProudLaos, you dork, why you had to edit my comment? It's not my word I want to speak like you twisted. That's not my personality.  ;D ::)

Here's my original that ProudLaos omitted.


Sad to see you don't qualify to judge her since you're Christian. Let you know Peter judged Simon the magician he's not qualified to have the power of God since Jesus said let children come to him. So Peter has the right to judge others then you should too when you're separating yourself from this murderer's way.  :knuppel2: ::)

LOL didnít know I was messing with your online personality



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #21 on: January 12, 2021, 09:56:38 PM »
LOL didnít know I was messing with your online personality

We all know you are the red laos commie army
Sent here to spy on us hmong in the states





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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #22 on: January 13, 2021, 09:06:39 AM »
We all know you are the red laos commie army
Sent here to spy on us hmong in the states


Stay on topic.

You can create another thread to discuss whatís on your mind.



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #23 on: January 13, 2021, 10:27:09 AM »
ProudLaos, you dork, why you had to edit my comment? It's not my word I want to speak like you twisted. That's not my personality.  ;D ::)

Here's my original that ProudLaos omitted.


Sad to see you don't qualify to judge her since you're Christian. Let you know Peter judged Simon the magician he's not qualified to have the power of God since Jesus said let children come to him. So Peter has the right to judge others then you should too when you're separating yourself from this murderer's way.  :knuppel2: ::)

My religion has no bearing on my qualifications to judge anyone, especially this poor woman. I can't judge her for the very same reasons anyone should not judge me... I have done some pretty sh*ty things in my life and I have no idea what this woman has been thru nor do I know the circumstances that drove her to commit this terrible act. What I offer is that anyone facing the same situation should seek help, there is no shame is saying I need help and that this is beyond my capacity.



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #24 on: January 13, 2021, 12:04:52 PM »
This is indeed a very sad tragedy that should have NEVER happened in the first place had the social svc released the children back into her hands. I'm sure she will plead insanity as she already stated that she hears voices but I'm not so sure if I want to believe her. Unless there's evidence and a long history that she does have mental issues. Either way, she will now face the consequences of killing her baby. Poor baby, may you rest in peace.  :'(



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #25 on: January 13, 2021, 02:03:12 PM »
I came from a family of 7 siblings and I myself have more than 3+.  My siblings and I all grew up okay and all my kids finished college, now doing there own things.  There are good parents and bad parents, therefore this has nothing to do with TOO MANY KIDS.  This is just simply bad parents whether it's one kid or many kids.  It's sad to hear this kind of things in our community but it does exist.  Like I said many times before, parenting is very hard and any parents who's able to raise good children deserves a PHD in parenthood/child development/child psychology/etc.  There's a lot of parents who fail miserably in this department and some only have one child lol.


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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #26 on: January 14, 2021, 12:46:18 AM »
oh shit damn...fer reals...fuking damn this isn't the first Hmong lady to do such...fuking Hmong women association where the fuke you at...fuking do your job and raise fuking mental illness awareness and get these ladies the help they need. i blame all the useless so call non profit Hmong organizations that suppose tobe helping people like these but doesn't do shit. lie to the governemtn and abuse the funds taxpayers money. fuking sheet damn it.



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #27 on: January 14, 2021, 12:54:37 AM »
fuking sheet...this is fuke up man shit yo...i feel like 2021 is fuke up already for us Hmongos...haha fuking sheet yo. Hngrock i better see your ass organize this biggest fundraiser and funeral for this innocent soul,so young and precious, don't even know a thing about the world....fukin g shit...don't know why im so angry now...haha



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #28 on: January 14, 2021, 09:11:35 AM »
MOST Hmong men love to pull authority and status on their wife when it comes to child care responsibiliti es.  Thus result in extreme child care labor physically and mentally for MOST Hmong women and sometimes result in mental problems.  I know this because one year I was not working due to job lay off and had to watch our kids and it was one of the toughest job I had ever done.  Since then, I always share the child care responsibility with my wife equally.  I don't know about this case but what I see in our Hmong community is that MOST Hmong men don't really help their spouse equally in the child care department.  Don't get me wrong, there are good husband who share the childcare load too, but just a few good ones out there.  Then again, a lot of these habits are known during the dating stage and people tend to have excuses for them even when they knew all along about the bad habits. Like you knew your gf don't like kids that much OR your bf is an alcoholic, etc.



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Re: Mother Beat 2-Year-Old Melody Vang To Death In St. Paul Home
« Reply #29 on: January 14, 2021, 01:54:14 PM »
This article gives more details on the incident:

https://www.twincities.com/2021/01/11/murder-charge-mom-says-she-lost-temper-kept-hitting-her-2-year-old-in-st-paul/?utm_content=fb-PioneerPress&utm_campaign=socialflow&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&fbclid=IwAR0Dbpb_WhrK20s4PUI4AYZ-B8KHqfn1X-QouHb1DDRQrjb-z6-kmvRO1DE

There is no reason or excuse to beat a child to death, no matter what the personís history is.  Currently, the father isnít being charged of any crime but itís hard for me to believe that he didnít hear the cries.



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