Advertisement

Author Topic: Did I make the wrong moves here?  (Read 268 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Anonymous

  • Guest
Did I make the wrong moves here?
« on: February 11, 2021, 12:36:23 PM »
I have known two sisters for a  long time. I asked one to go out with me. She turned me down.

Then  asked the other to go out with me. She accepted. We are about to go out.

But the first sister now says she wants to go out with me.

I don't mind either one. But I don't know how to handle this now. To go out with the second one or to go out with the first one?

Neither knows I have been approaching the other. But I know when things get serious, they will know.

They are in their 30s. So things will get sexually serious between us. I know that for sure.



Like this post: 0

Adverstisement

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #1 on: February 11, 2021, 01:08:17 PM »
With all due respect, you sound like those grody guys who goes for a girl and if he gets turned down, goes for the sequential sisters until he gets lucky.

Sincerely,

A guy... who thinks that's wrong!



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #2 on: February 11, 2021, 02:22:11 PM »
Many Hmong guys date the older sister but marries the younger sister.



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #3 on: February 11, 2021, 03:25:49 PM »
first, its your life so do whatever you want. second, those sisters must not talk to each other otherwise they would've cancelled your ass already hahah... at least i think they should haha



Like this post: 0

Offline Reporter

  • Administrator
  • *****
  • Posts: 77819
  • 31-day months: Odds: 1,3,5,7: Even: 8, 10,12.
  • Respect: +488
    • View Profile
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #4 on: February 11, 2021, 03:47:46 PM »
I suppose they want the older sister to give them a nice dowry, too?

Many Hmong guys date the older sister but marries the younger sister.



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2021, 11:33:29 PM »
ppl still do dowry?  ???



Like this post: 0

Offline Reporter

  • Administrator
  • *****
  • Posts: 77819
  • 31-day months: Odds: 1,3,5,7: Even: 8, 10,12.
  • Respect: +488
    • View Profile
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #6 on: February 18, 2021, 01:35:59 AM »
Yes.

Dowry is what the bride's family gives the couple. So, not just Hmong but most cultures around the world do it every time there's a wedding.

That's different from bride or bride wealth, however. This is something the groom pays the bride's family for her.

ppl still do dowry?  ???



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #7 on: February 18, 2021, 12:24:07 PM »
You made the wrong moves. Shouldn't have ask them out if you weren't serious nor sure about your feelings. Especially if it's wishy washy and attracted to more than one person. Just saying.



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #8 on: February 19, 2021, 11:08:26 AM »
Yes you leave both alone..you don't seem to have "pure" intention for either.



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #9 on: February 21, 2021, 12:02:36 PM »
Yes you leave both alone..you don't seem to have "pure" intention for either.

Dirty intentions only, huh?



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2021, 11:40:16 AM »
Dirty intentions only, huh?
Yes... if you are OP and let me quote, "They are in their 30s. So things will get sexually serious between us. I know that for sure."

That was the game plan all along....



Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #11 on: February 23, 2021, 02:23:03 AM »
Bro- have some class.  Pick one and that's it!  You only get one. 






Like this post: 0

Anonymous

  • Guest
Re: Did I make the wrong moves here?
« Reply #12 on: February 24, 2021, 02:18:53 PM »
Yes.

Dowry is what the bride's family gives the couple. So, not just Hmong but most cultures around the world do it every time there's a wedding.

That's different from bride or bride wealth, however. This is something the groom pays the bride's family for her.
omg i know what a dowry is haha i didn't know hmong in murica still does it.. geez i'm too mika.. bye



Like this post: 0

 

Advertisements