Did I make the wrong moves here?

[Anonymous]

I have known two sisters for a  long time. I asked one to go out with me. She turned me down.

Then  asked the other to go out with me. She accepted. We are about to go out.

But the first sister now says she wants to go out with me.

I don't mind either one. But I don't know how to handle this now. To go out with the second one or to go out with the first one?

Neither knows I have been approaching the other. But I know when things get serious, they will know.

They are in their 30s. So things will get sexually serious between us. I know that for sure.

[Anonymous]

With all due respect, you sound like those grody guys who goes for a girl and if he gets turned down, goes for the sequential sisters until he gets lucky.

Sincerely,

A guy... who thinks that's wrong!

[Anonymous]

Many Hmong guys date the older sister but marries the younger sister.

[Anonymous]

first, its your life so do whatever you want. second, those sisters must not talk to each other otherwise they would've cancelled your ass already hahah... at least i think they should haha

[Reporter]

I suppose they want the older sister to give them a nice dowry, too?

Many Hmong guys date the older sister but marries the younger sister.

[Anonymous]

ppl still do dowry? 

[Reporter]

Yes.

Dowry is what the bride's family gives the couple. So, not just Hmong but most cultures around the world do it every time there's a wedding.

That's different from bride or bride wealth, however. This is something the groom pays the bride's family for her.

ppl still do dowry? 

[Anonymous]

You made the wrong moves. Shouldn't have ask them out if you weren't serious nor sure about your feelings. Especially if it's wishy washy and attracted to more than one person. Just saying.

[Anonymous]

Yes you leave both alone..you don't seem to have "pure" intention for either.

[Anonymous]

Yes you leave both alone..you don't seem to have "pure" intention for either.

Dirty intentions only, huh?

[Anonymous]

Dirty intentions only, huh?

Yes... if you are OP and let me quote, "They are in their 30s. So things will get sexually serious between us. I know that for sure."

That was the game plan all along....

[Anonymous]

Bro- have some class.  Pick one and that's it!  You only get one. 

[Anonymous]

Yes.

Dowry is what the bride's family gives the couple. So, not just Hmong but most cultures around the world do it every time there's a wedding.

That's different from bride or bride wealth, however. This is something the groom pays the bride's family for her.

omg i know what a dowry is haha i didn't know hmong in murica still does it.. geez i'm too mika.. bye