Why pay her? IT should be a bribe to pay him and lets see if he takes money over women.
Now if you want him to take that money, you gotta have your own connection who will cancel his credit accord account, put a dent in his financial status and have the guy struggle in life then he will chooses life over love.
I remembered this rich asian guy once put a bid out for any male who can marry his daughter for that much amount of money. Only problem is that his daughter is a lesbian.