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Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« on: February 11, 2022, 01:22:06 PM »
What is the hardest thing you face when go through divorce?

for me it's the decision making. I have been single for over two months now and I wish I made this decision 10 years ago when I was in my 30s.


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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #1 on: February 11, 2022, 04:59:44 PM »
That’s normally what people say when the divorce is final. We get lost in life and everything surrounding us but we failed to care and love ourselves first.

The hardest part for me personally was letting my princess know.



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #2 on: February 11, 2022, 06:42:14 PM »
I'll throw a divorce party and I'll get wreck less

I have no problem with meeting women.  The hardest part is myself, I am not dating material   :2funny:




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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2022, 08:28:30 AM »
People don’t take me seriously when I tell them it’s ok to divorce.



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2022, 09:12:29 AM »
Hardest thing people face when go through divorce is the divorce itself.  After the divorce, healing, recovery and meeting new people/love, these must be real hard.  I"M GUESSING ONLY.



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2022, 10:27:54 AM »
You still call her princess, bro?

To me, that would just be an ex.

That’s normally what people say when the divorce is final. We get lost in life and everything surrounding us but we failed to care and love ourselves first.

The hardest part for me personally was letting my princess know.



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« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2022, 01:59:25 PM »
You still call her princess, bro?

To me, that would just be an ex.

My daughter will always be my princess



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #7 on: February 15, 2022, 02:46:04 PM »
I thought you were referring to the ex. :2funny:

Yeah. But  I don't know why that would be hard for you. Just bring her here instead of keeping her in NC. That's where you came from, right?

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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #8 on: February 15, 2022, 05:07:46 PM »
Depends on the individual and circumstance as some folks don't find it hard at all. In fact, they look forward to divorce and even celebrate the occasion by throwing a divorce party:










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« Reply #9 on: February 15, 2022, 06:36:56 PM »
I thought you were referring to the ex. :2funny:

Yeah. But  I don't know why that would be hard for you. Just bring her here instead of keeping her in NC. That's where you came from, right?

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She’s got a good life there. And I’m okay with it.



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #10 on: February 16, 2022, 03:06:00 PM »
You’re ok with her calling someone else “daddy”? I mean... um... you know, that ex is going to bring someone into her life or some guy is going to take that ex to the marital altar somehow.


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She’s got a good life there. And I’m okay with it.



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« Reply #11 on: February 16, 2022, 05:47:19 PM »
You’re ok with her calling someone else “daddy”? I mean... um... you know, that ex is going to bring someone into her life or some guy is going to take that ex to the marital altar somehow.

She’s not exactly 5 so there won’t be any of that lol



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #12 on: February 16, 2022, 06:27:21 PM »
What is the hardest thing you face when go through divorce?

for me it's the decision making. I have been single for over two months now and I wish I made this decision 10 years ago when I was in my 30s.

will I survive being a single parent....YES, i sure did!



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #13 on: February 16, 2022, 07:01:35 PM »
Depends on the individual and circumstance as some folks don't find it hard at all. In fact, they look forward to divorce and even celebrate the occasion by throwing a divorce party:







For me its not life and death and its not end of life but its hard. I am an OG for this generation. I did anything possible just to save my marriage until I realized that the glass has been broken and its time to let go of everthing



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Re: Hardest thing people face when go through divorce..
« Reply #14 on: February 16, 2022, 09:41:02 PM »
will I survive being a single parent....YES, i sure did!

Good for you... O0

My mom divorced my dad and became a single parent and she actually grew stronger ...



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