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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #15 on: March 31, 2022, 10:23:27 AM »
How? Is this how closure happens?
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"When" she can't tell him no or

It gets her no way to tell  him no;
It gets her no way to make him go;
Will a little more love make it right?
Will a little more love make it right?


That's what Olivia Newton-Jon wants to know.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZzPru7yrEUQ

In your situation Rebel, I think he has a feeling you like him only as a friend and I think you're aware he likes you more than a friend.  I'm sure you send him plenty a signal and that doesn't seem to work.  Instead of sending clues and signal, put a closure to it so both of you know where things stand.


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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #16 on: March 31, 2022, 06:53:58 PM »
I think you're sending him mix messages.  Have a honest conversation to find out where you and he stands on things instead of wondering/guessing.

I never reach out to him but I do respond out of politeness… but you are right that maybe I am sending him mix messages. I try to stay in the friendly side..but the messages are nonstop and I can’t stop from responding even though sometimes I let it go for a whole day… maybe I just need to find a cool way to say it to him



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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #17 on: March 31, 2022, 06:55:58 PM »
If you enjoy talking to him then why not? I don't see what the problem is.

I’m in a relationship and he knows that but i don’t know how to really end something like this. We’re friends but like it would have to be like a break up and who breaks up with a friend like this? Lol



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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #18 on: March 31, 2022, 07:01:43 PM »
In your situation Rebel, I think he has a feeling you like him only as a friend and I think you're aware he likes you more than a friend.  I'm sure you send him plenty a signal and that doesn't seem to work.  Instead of sending clues and signal, put a closure to it so both of you know where things stand.


I think maybe it’s just hard to end something like this… we are friends but there are attractions also. I have mentioned about it a month ago but he avoid that conversation and continues to text/call… I really need to cut it off completely! I just know it’s not going to go well  :(



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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #19 on: March 31, 2022, 07:18:08 PM »
You want it to stop?

give him sex just one time

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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #20 on: April 13, 2022, 03:06:47 PM »
Few days passed and maybe I am interested in him so it’s becoming real hard to end things. We’re just friends. How can I politely end things even when I know there’s feelings. This is going to hurt me and him. I don’t have the balls to do i
 :( I’d just cut him off cut and be done with it, not ghost the friendship.

Everything I’m trying to say to him sounds mean and hurtful…

But what if he was the one?  :(


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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #21 on: April 13, 2022, 03:17:41 PM »
Seems like you like him too.  Why not give the guy a chance and yes he could be the one.  One thing for sure, you can't string the guy/be indecisive.  It's obvious he has feelings for you otherwise he would be gone by now.

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Re: Is it okay to ignore good night and good morning texts?
« Reply #22 on: April 13, 2022, 04:56:39 PM »
Uh huh. Making more sense now.

Few days passed and maybe I am interested in him so it’s becoming real hard to end things. We’re just friends. How can I politely end things even when I know there’s feelings. This is going to hurt me and him. I don’t have the balls to do i
 :( I’d just cut him off cut and be done with it, not ghost the friendship.

Everything I’m trying to say to him sounds mean and hurtful…

But what if he was the one?  :(



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