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Reality check
« on: July 08, 2022, 06:54:23 AM »
If a guy is a 5/10 or below, have a job but makes on a lower end say 25k Per year and he believe in his mind that he is a 10/10 because he has confidence and believes in himself and he deserves a full package 10/10 girlfriend. I will  explain to him that it doesnít work like that.



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #1 on: July 08, 2022, 08:28:46 AM »
You don't walk around with income statement posted on your forehead.  A hot car you can rent.  A hot suit you can rent that too.  Keep the receipt and you can exchange it after the date.  All these can be had on a 25k income. 

Remember the saying.  I'm not here a long time.  I'm here for a good time. 

You really have 3 weeks until they figure you out so you better get that booty by then. 



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #2 on: July 08, 2022, 08:50:14 AM »
Yeah thatís not really me. I like to get in a relationship and do normal activities like regular couple.

Iím here for a good time and a long time.

An escort is what youíre  looking for. 



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #3 on: July 08, 2022, 09:09:06 AM »
Yeah thatís not really me. I like to get in a relationship and do normal activities like regular couple.

Iím here for a good time and a long time.

An escort is what youíre  looking for.

The relationship game is a deceptive game at best.  When you first started out, everyone will do their best to impress.  She doesn't know what you do for a living or what your status is and if she wants to guess, she can look at your footprint as in your car, your watch, your shoes, your living quarters.  Your job is to put all that aside and make her fall in love.  If she's in love with you, no matter what you do or how poor you really are, she will still be into you.  Even if you a chain smoker, if she's into you after a few months of hiding your nasty habits, she will learn to accept you.  My friends did that.  He always be hiding his smoking habits.  It is a deceptive game at best.  I told him that he can not hide forever so one day he just smoked right in front of her and turns out she doesn't care. 

Not all women are made the same.  Those that knows are built differently.  Like divas, if you don't live on your own, they will not entertain you.  Living on your own means that you have a good job to pay that rent.  Even better if you own that home and in this case, she's ready to move in with you.  When I had my own condo back in them days as a vacation home in mn, my sexual activity goes up.  That was when I was still in my prime.  Now I'm living with my cousin's family when I am in MN like right now and that's by choice.  Sexual encounter?  You think I'll sneak in a chick at my Uncle house?  You got to be kidding me.  Next year I'll probably get myself a hotel but only if I'm feeling it to play the fields once again.  Naive women in the Midwest are so easy to con.  Why my number is from the California area code?  If I play the tourist stance, im not getting laid unless she's a tourist herself.  I play the damsel who just moved into town and with that, she sees a future with me so she would entertainment me. 

It is still a deceptive game after all.  We would put out a front and hoping that she would bite our lies.  This would buy us some time and as we slowly unravel ourselves to the truth, we would hope that she is special enough to like you for who you are.  Rare but doable hence why she's my exceptional.



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #4 on: July 08, 2022, 11:25:22 AM »
Before you marry a woman, you have to live together for a bit because living with her is different than seeing her a few times a week or month.

Me and her, we see each other once a week or sometimes once bi-weekly. We go out and do normal activities then sex at the end of the date. We see each other almost regular so I know she canít hide much. But you never know lol.

Btw, I have a rotation so I donít depend on just one girl. If she is not exclusive then i  am free to date other pple. 


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Re: Reality check
« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2022, 03:38:13 PM »
Before you marry a woman, you have to live together for a bit because living with her is different than seeing her a few times a week or month.

Me and her, we see each other once a week or sometimes once bi-weekly. We go out and do normal activities then sex at the end of the date. We see each other almost regular so I know she canít hide much. But you never know lol.

Btw, I have a rotation so I donít depend on just one girl. If she is not exclusive then i  am free to date other pple.

Social media dating is just that ...social

For every 20 right swipe you have, she should have 30

Talking about trust issues.  Don't let your girl around me or things will get funny  :2funny:



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2022, 05:56:57 PM »
Social media dating is just that ...social

For every 20 right swipe you have, she should have 30

Talking about trust issues.  Don't let your girl around me or things will get funny  :2funny:

Lol she's not my girl. We aren't bf/gf. We're FWB. O0



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #7 on: July 11, 2022, 09:53:32 AM »
Gracified. I thought you were married by now.



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #8 on: July 11, 2022, 12:44:06 PM »
Gracified. I thought you were married by now.

Good knowledge but still failed.  Now who's taking advices with his results? 

If you want to brag, brag about your steady significant other.  All these friends with benefits are horse crap plays. 



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #9 on: July 11, 2022, 08:09:56 PM »
Good knowledge but still failed.  Now who's taking advices with his results? 

If you want to brag, brag about your steady significant other.  All these friends with benefits are horse crap plays.

Some of my FWB relationship lasts longer than my regular relationship where I always end up with drama stacked upon drama. I donít want all the baggages that comes with regular dating.

I never have any drama with women while I am dating them. Weíre all honest and upfront with each other about our intentions.

Like normal dating, there has to be mutual attraction and respect. Neither of us feel like we are taking advantage of each other. We each give to improve our lives. Sometimes we ask when we need and other time we give through affection.

It is honest. Iím sorry women didnít give you the same treatment they did to me lol. Everybodyís different.


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Re: Reality check
« Reply #10 on: July 12, 2022, 01:16:08 AM »
Some of my FWB relationship lasts longer than my regular relationship where I always end up with drama stacked upon drama. I donít want all the baggages that comes with regular dating.

I never have any drama with women while I am dating them. Weíre all honest and upfront with each other about our intentions.

Like normal dating, there has to be mutual attraction and respect. Neither of us feel like we are taking advantage of each other. We each give to improve our lives. Sometimes we ask when we need and other time we give through affection.

It is honest. Iím sorry women didnít give you the same treatment they did to me lol. Everybodyís different.

I don't brag bra. 

<=== See them numbers there under gender?  It's a code for a date n I'm still with her.  Lucky me or lucky gal.    You should try it sometimes O0



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #11 on: July 12, 2022, 08:53:43 AM »
I don't brag bra. 

<=== See them numbers there under gender?  It's a code for a date n I'm still with her.  Lucky me or lucky gal.    You should try it sometimes O0

Having options with women, have fashion style, financial stability, and stay on your purpose, is the best game, not your fake mouthpiece  :2funny:



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #12 on: September 21, 2022, 06:54:21 AM »
Imagine trying to get into a college with a 4.0 GPA and ACT 30, but your GPA is only a 2.0 and ACT 20, and youíre not athletic or suck in sports, thatís what itís like trying to get a chick who is a 8s, 9s and 10s thatís outta your league.



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Re: Reality check
« Reply #13 on: September 21, 2022, 01:56:46 PM »
Imagine trying to get into a college with a 4.0 GPA and ACT 30, but your GPA is only a 2.0 and ACT 20, and youíre not athletic or suck in sports, thatís what itís like trying to get a chick who is a 8s, 9s and 10s thatís outta your league.

You mean like with money, you can pay some coaches to tweak your resume so that your kids can get into that college?  Scandals like that have already been done and people already went to jail for it. 



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