If the groom would remove his alter ego then his character could fit to be husband material.
Sometimes I see some dudes put on an noble act when their peers are around. Whenever they're with their victims they do horrible things.
Jesus did mentioned something to the Pharisees when they accuse him of helping the sinners to seek salvation.
Matthew 23:25-26
25 “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you clean the outside of the cup and the plate, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. 26 You blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and the plate, that the outside also may be clean.