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Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« on: July 28, 2022, 03:40:49 PM »
...may be EVERYTHING for many of them. And of course they use visual to weed out who they don't want to chase. But here is my experience as a woman.

I grew up kind of old school when it came to courtship. This means that the men always did the approaching and the pursuing. As a young lady I'd have suitors from varying types come to the house or call. Back in the day you get more suitors than nowadays. Now, the men don't even bother since there is social media. Anyways, I was an immature teen so of course physical appearance was high on the list. There was this one guy who was very handsome. So handsome that I could barely look at him in the eye when we interacted. He was friendly and had a likable personality, too. This is not going to be one of those stories where the pretty boy is a jerk. But you know what? As handsome and nice as he was, he just didn't do it for me. After awhile, I wasn't fazed by his handsomeness at all. It was just very normal to me. He became very normal to me.

But there was this other guy who was pretty handsome, not as good looking as the other one, but boy oh boy, did he ever have me captivated. I wanted to see more of him and felt extremely delighted whenever we talked. Everyday he appeared more handsome in my eyes.

So you see, those of you who only look out for 10s (10s in your eyes) could be missing out on the greatest love of your life.

 



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #1 on: July 29, 2022, 08:45:54 AM »
Shoot! If y'all think like that how y'all gonna get along.  No wonder y'all high-value persona have made some Japanese guys into low self-esteem freak-i-zoid and they got attached to sex dolls for the rest of their miserable lives. ;D



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2022, 09:18:43 AM »
Then approach girls who don't have attractive men (looks, character, education, career) knocking on her door. O0

This is why I said that it almost doesn't mean squat whether you think a girl is pretty in her pictures or not. If there are men who look better than you and are doing better than you in life who are attracted to her and are pursuing her, then you haven't got a chance anyways. We we women are not as visual as you men. We still want to be physically attracted to our man but that is evolving based on his personality, how he treats us, whether or not we feel safe with him, and so on.

For example, I want to be and feel feminine around my man. I do not want to be one of those "I am woman hear me roar" when I'm with my man. But if a guy is behaving in ways that trigger masculine emotions from me then I'm just not attracted to him at all. It's the same reason why men dislike women who emasculate them.



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2022, 10:11:46 AM »
We we women are not as visual as you men. We still want to be physically attracted to our man but that is evolving based on his personality,

 ::) oh whoopi-doo

Katy Perry eyeing on average looking guy.

https://youtu.be/6a-1dMYKVQY




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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #4 on: July 29, 2022, 10:12:52 AM »
Hey, I never said that women are blind.  :P



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #5 on: July 29, 2022, 10:22:51 AM »
Btw, that guy appears average when you compare him to some Hollywood hunks. But in the real world he'd be considered slightly better than average.

That's what mes kas women like, okay. You got a problem with that?  ::)



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #6 on: July 29, 2022, 10:23:33 AM »
If i were a headless horseman would you still attracted to me.  :D



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« Reply #7 on: July 29, 2022, 10:39:02 AM »
If i were a headless horseman would you still attracted to me.  :D

I'd love that because then I can imagine whatever face I wanted to.  :P


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« Reply #8 on: July 29, 2022, 10:48:38 AM »
 ::) Surrreeee! All BNM can do is slapping me on the face really hard without reading the proper manual beforehand. Zaum no kuv zoo nraug. Tsis txhob khib naw.  ;D

https://youtu.be/470erIenpmk?t=4265



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« Reply #9 on: July 29, 2022, 11:01:49 AM »
Why do I get the feeling that you've been saving this clip to use at just the right moment?

Geeze, should I feel flattered?  :D



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« Reply #10 on: July 29, 2022, 08:27:26 PM »
That's because you love staring anytime. This led to the moment you want to distort my appearance to your liking. Puas yog kuv hais mas.



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« Reply #11 on: July 29, 2022, 11:41:09 PM »
Based on the clip I thought that you were the man who was punching the girl (me).

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And I'm not the one distorting your face. You volunteered to be the headless horseman.

Tsam no cia li muab liam rau kuv.  ::)



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« Reply #12 on: July 30, 2022, 03:21:39 AM »
Tong Pak Fu thiaj yog koj hos kuv ces twb yog Nkauj Chao hawj lawm ne. Koj nyiam ntau neej.

Yes, I did say I'm a headless horseman and you said you like imagining my face. So there's no fault in this particular mini-argument. Idk why you making this a big deal.  :P :D



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Re: Men Are Visual So I Understand that Looks...
« Reply #13 on: July 30, 2022, 08:33:37 AM »
Sighs... mob mob hlwb li os.



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