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We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« on: September 09, 2022, 12:41:21 PM »
 Whatever that means...

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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2022, 02:50:14 PM »
gonna lose your date since you've no clue  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2022, 03:11:20 PM »
That means tell more stories to keep them hook or else they get bored.  ;D



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2022, 04:13:14 PM »
It means get her drunk fast  ;D



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« Reply #4 on: September 10, 2022, 09:56:10 AM »
You gotta throw in some allowance on top of that too. 

Here’s why: If you only offer experience to women by taking them out on dates then you’re no different than every other guy. Even a good bf should already do that by default.

This is why most men take a woman to dinner and expect sex at the  of the night, she rejects him because there was no allowance, there was only experience to a dinner date. Women want more than that!

This is why sex isn’t guarantee in normal dating. Sex is guarantee for me because we are upfront.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #5 on: September 11, 2022, 04:47:25 AM »
Ok.

You gotta throw in some allowance on top of that too.

Here’s why: If you only offer experience to women by taking them out on dates then you’re no different than every other guy. Even a good bf should already do that by default.

This is why most men take a woman to dinner and expect sex at the  of the night, she rejects him because there was no allowance, there was only experience to a dinner date. Women want more than that!

This is why sex isn’t guarantee in normal dating. Sex is guarantee for me because we are upfront.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #6 on: September 11, 2022, 04:48:20 AM »
You are a pro, Gracified23.


You gotta throw in some allowance on top of that too. 

Here’s why: If you only offer experience to women by taking them out on dates then you’re no different than every other guy. Even a good bf should already do that by default.

This is why most men take a woman to dinner and expect sex at the  of the night, she rejects him because there was no allowance, there was only experience to a dinner date. Women want more than that!

This is why sex isn’t guarantee in normal dating. Sex is guarantee for me because we are upfront.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #7 on: September 11, 2022, 11:12:51 AM »
So now G is paying for sex? Isn't that basically hiring an escort service or paying a prostitute?

I am so confused.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #8 on: September 11, 2022, 01:04:01 PM »
So now G is paying for sex? Isn't that basically hiring an escort service or paying a prostitute?

I am so confused.

A sugar relationship is not anything like hiring an escort or paying a prostitute, and is closer to a real relationship.

It’s not morally wrong to financially help someone you date. It’s morally wrong to pay for a prostitute you meet at a hotel.

With sugar, we both set our expectations upfront. We both know what we’re getting out of the relationship. We both have agree. So there’s no guessing like in a normal dating where the guy take the girl out to dinner and expect sex at the end of the night. The sex may not guarantee for him because that wasn’t expected. It’s how the toned it set from the beginning. Sugar dating is just defining this upfront. The man wants sex, the girl wants to be financially supported.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #9 on: September 11, 2022, 01:08:07 PM »
You are a pro, Gracified23.

Yup, I am. Even in a normal dating situation most men still gonna expect sex at the end of the date. From men perspective, it’s always about sex. From women perspective it’s your resources. 



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #10 on: September 11, 2022, 10:54:16 PM »
Yup, I am. Even in a normal dating situation most men still gonna expect sex at the end of the date. From men perspective, it’s always about sex. From women perspective it’s your resources.

You don't think women want sex above all else as well? I've given resources to women while avoiding sex and they never see me again. I think if I had offered sex in place of resources or if both, they might still be around?



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2022, 10:37:34 AM »
You don't think women want sex above all else as well? I've given resources to women while avoiding sex and they never see me again. I think if I had offered sex in place of resources or if both, they might still be around?

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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #12 on: September 12, 2022, 11:22:30 AM »
You don't think women want sex above all else as well? I've given resources to women while avoiding sex and they never see me again. I think if I had offered sex in place of resources or if both, they might still be around?

You was leading with your wallet. Lol.

You have to lay out expectations on both ends and do not assume that she will put out.

Some women never intended to be intimate with you. But if you offer them resources they’re going to take it.

They may want sex too, but it may take a bit of time for them to warm up and feel the vibe.


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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #13 on: September 12, 2022, 09:04:44 PM »
You was leading with your wallet. Lol.

You have to lay out expectations on both ends and do not assume that she will put out.

Some women never intended to be intimate with you. But if you offer them resources they’re going to take it.

They may want sex too, but it may take a bit of time for them to warm up and feel the vibe.

I see. I should do mutual exchanges to be fair then. Get them to agree to an exchange.

I still think we can't assume that only men are interested in sex.



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« Reply #14 on: September 12, 2022, 10:56:08 PM »
I see. I should do mutual exchanges to be fair then. Get them to agree to an exchange.

I still think we can't assume that only men are interested in sex.

See here’s the thing. Hmong girls are conservative so sex is highly unlikely to happen. Asian girls has the anti-slut mechanism. They get butt hurt easy and they don’t understand sarcasm. Everything you say they took it as an insult. That’s based on my experience. I’m not saying all Asian girls are like that, but I think sex can only happen to certain girls.

But if we’re talking Meka dawb it’s waay harder to get sex as an Asian guy. Sometime if a woman is attracted to you sex can happen on the first date, but you have to know how the game works in order to lead the interaction to get sex. Even if the girl is attracted to you, if you don’t know what to say to get her wet and talk about stupid irrelevant stuff that doesn’t lead you toward the sex the girl will get bored and leave.

When it comes to online texting, I can get girls to open on the first message easy. You have to set the frame sexually right from the start if you’re looking to hookup. You have to know how to open, how to qualify her, then how to number closed. I usually move the conversation on the app to phone. There’s a method I personally follow that works for me. Even sugar dating is still tough for me. I still have to put in the effort and make them interested to get the date. Getting the match is the hardest.


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