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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #30 on: September 19, 2022, 09:19:02 PM »
I don't understand why these women don't just be with a man who wants a real commitment. I guess those men are far and few these days.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #31 on: September 19, 2022, 10:20:10 PM »
I don't understand why these women don't just be with a man who wants a real commitment. I guess those men are far and few these days.

Women only go for Chad. They want relationship from Chad and every one else is simping them. The guys who are all
below her wants her, but she wants the top tier guy.

Man have to either look really hot or make money.

Most men donít fit womenís sky high standards lol


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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #32 on: September 19, 2022, 10:33:57 PM »
Women only go for Chad. They want relationship from Chad and every one else is simping them. The guys who are all
below her wants her, but she wants the top tier guy.

Man have to either look really hot or make money.

Most men donít fit womenís sky high standards lol

I don't know if I can believe that. I see attractive women who want a relationship with the average guy all the time. However, it's the men who don't want commitment. That's probably why women stopped caring and started only wanting Chads. If average men are going to be like that then might as well shoot for the Chads.

I know women who are exactly like that. They will only allow themselves to fall in love with a Chad. If they don't get a Chad then they will settle for less but the lesser guy can never hurt them emotionally. And when they don't care about the guy, the guy is simping all over her.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #33 on: September 19, 2022, 10:40:32 PM »
I don't know if I can believe that. I see attractive women who want a relationship with the average guy all the time. However, it's the men who don't want commitment. That's probably why women stopped caring and started only wanting Chads. If average men are going to be like that then might as well shoot for the Chads.

I know women who are exactly like that. They will only allow themselves to fall in love with a Chad. If they don't get a Chad then they will settle for less but the lesser guy can never hurt them emotionally. And when they don't care about the guy, the guy is simping all over her.

On the surface it might look like they do, but deep down average guys are all paying lol. They are providing or have something the woman can benefit from long term.  The only time they arenít paying is if heís a 7 and sheís like a 3. But if heís average and sheís a Stacy, thereís no way he can get her just with game alone.


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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #34 on: September 20, 2022, 02:58:51 PM »
Women only go for Chad. They want relationship from Chad and every one else is simping them. The guys who are all
below her wants her, but she wants the top tier guy.

Man have to either look really hot or make money.

Most men donít fit womenís sky high standards lol

Your problem is your belief that everything is institutionali zed.  Like 2+2 will always be 4.  It is given that everyone, including women wants the top pick of the crops.  However, do not let it deter you from your dating game because there is always an exception to them rules. 

There are list, from the top best to the bottom that goes something like 1. Chad looks, 2. Money, 3. Humor ect ect.  If you dont' have the top 2, at least have the next few.  Use that to win some hearts.  Be realistic to what you can get and if you want a dime, you can try to make her laugh and if she falls for you then cool but if not then nothing to cry soil milk over.   Here is an example from the Vietnamese tabloid.  The guy represent you, not that handsome, shorter than her but he's a comedian.  She's a vietnamese singer that is half korean so she brings kpop to the vietnam market.  He got money and humor and he got the girl.  You can say the same for comedian Kevin Hart as well. 




So you see, not everything follows the rules of the cosmos.  The reason why I'm going to marry my hmong girl is because she's the exceptional.   O0
 



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #35 on: September 20, 2022, 06:01:39 PM »
Comparing two celebrities to 99% of us is not realistic. Most guys are not comedians and celebrities are in a completely different world. If you havenít notice a lot of celebrities date each other. You have millionaire dating other millionaire. Most dimes are dating CEOs, athletes, pop stars, sugar daddies etc. you donít see a dime with average broke dudes.



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #36 on: September 20, 2022, 07:17:58 PM »
Comparing two celebrities to 99% of us is not realistic. Most guys are not comedians and celebrities are in a completely different world. If you havenít notice a lot of celebrities date each other. You have millionaire dating other millionaire. Most dimes are dating CEOs, athletes, pop stars, sugar daddies etc. you donít see a dime with average broke dudes.

Broke guys don't have no business in the end game of things.  Women have their own choices.  It is only logical that by the principle of biology for women to seek out the best of the best for her.  Would she date a broke guy?  No but with an exception.  If he's handsome is the exception.  Look at britney spears.  She is a multi millionaire and she once married her back up dancer.   What is that guy's net worth?  Probably making less than I am but he's handsome. 

My friend straight out of college met a dentist online and they ended up marrying.  She was a tad older, late 30s and he just 21, fresh out of college.  The guy was handsome and once they met for the first time in MN (she's from washington state), they ended up marrying in less than 6 months.  You see, older women don't hang around and date for a long time.  They pushes the envelop because they are not getting any younger.  They now have a business in burnsville MN and he does front desk work for her. 

Another real life case study for you.  Loser guys with no money like druggie or gangster losers tend to have hot looking females.  These women have no sense of a future nor do they know how to exploit their looks to make money or gold digging for her end game.  So yes, pretty looking women do make mistakes by dating losers too. 






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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #37 on: September 20, 2022, 08:37:50 PM »
If a guy is average looking and when he finally finds his exceptional girl who will like him for him, that girl will more likely be a 3. This explains the reason why women who message you first tend to be uglier, thatís because those are the girls you can get based on your smv (sexual market value).

If we look at fat people for example, a fat guy dates a fat woman. The only time this is an exception is when the fat guy has money (aka sugar daddy).

Now a handsome guy can get dates and relationships but heís not sugaring. Now if he decide to sugar, he still have to pay because thatís how sugar works. Sugar is always allowance no matter if the guy is attractive or not. Just because heís handsome doesnít rule him out. Sugar is supposed to be mutual beneficial. But he doesnít need to sugar if heís handsome enough. He can just stick to regular dating. Why do you think incels exist?

If the handsome guy get in a relationship with the girl she will not receive allowance but sheís probably still benefiting from his lifestyle and Iím sure he still spends on her, just not giving her cash directly.


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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #38 on: September 20, 2022, 10:56:50 PM »
If we look at fat people for example, a fat guy dates a fat woman. The only time this is an exception is when the fat guy has money (aka sugar daddy).

Not always the case. Although the numbers are small, some girls that society generally considered good looking prefers fat guys. On the flip side, some guys that society generally considered good looking also prefers fat girls. Money and/or status aren't really a factor, they're just genuinely attracted to them.

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Good news for chubby, husky, and straight-up fat guys: A growing body of research suggests that women are attracted to men who edge closer to the side of overweight. And itís not just because they think chubby guys are funny or cute. In fact, women love fat guys for a number of reasons grounded in science, ranging from the assumed trustworthines s of fat guys to increased sexual stamina that extra pounds bring. And although being overweight comes with a number of health risks, including heart disease and erectile dysfunction, chubby guys donít need to get lean to find love. Science suggests that if thereís one area in which husky men donít seem to struggle, itís relationships. But why do girls like fat guys? Here are five scientific reasons why women lust after fat men.

Chubby Men Are Thought to Be Funnier
A substantial amount of evidence shows that women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh. (In line with everything wrong with the world, it doesnít work the other way around.) Although all fat men arenít necessarily funny, pop culture has socialized most people to believe that fat equals funny, unless proven otherwise. So whether or not those extra pounds translate to a sense of humor, women are likely to assume that fat guys are funny.

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Chubby guys are better in bed, according to a survey of 2,544 British women. Thirty-eight percent reported that overweight or plus-size men were superior lovers. Itís not totally clear why extra cushion improves the pushiní, but research suggests stamina might have something to do with it. Men with noticeable bellies and higher BMIs last 7.3 minutes longer in bed than slimmer men, a 2010 study from the International Journal of Impotence Research found. Hey, thatís 7.3 fewer minutes needed in the gym.

Fat Guys Are Considered Trustworthy
The saying ďnever trust a skinny chefĒ may have less to do with food than people think, according to research from the University of Missouri. This study found that skinny politicians are less trustworthy compared to their husky counterparts. These findings make a solid case for Democratic presidential candidates eating more carbs, and this may be why women are into fat guys. Sure, trustworthines s isnít exactly the same thing as attractiveness . But it definitely adds to the appeal of chubby men.

Attractive Fat Guys Are a Product of Evolution
ďThose who could store fat easily had an evolutionary advantage in the harsh environment of early hunters and gatherers,Ē Garabed Eknoyan, M.D., of the Baylor College of Medicine wrote in a 2006 paper. ďThis ability to store surplus fat from the least possible amount of food intake may have made the difference between life and death.Ē Indeed, in early human history, being husky was a status symbol: It meant you had the resources to survive, and you could share with a spouse. Being a fat guy indicated you were well off. Although modern women are more likely to be attracted to money than food, old habits die hard. Itís possible, Eknoyan writes, that traces of this instinctual attraction for fat guys linger, even when it doesnít come with a mansion.

Everyone Looks Thin Next to a Fat Guy

Letís face it. For every study that says men (chubby ones in particular) arenít judged for their bodies, there are another 10 that say women are positively flayed for theirs. Partnering with a huskier man whoís not obsessed with his body might make a woman feel more secure about her own. This, of course, on top of the literal comfort of cuddling with a chubby manís cozier bod. Thereís just more to love on a fat guy.

https://www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys



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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #39 on: September 21, 2022, 05:21:13 AM »
You can always find an exception but itís not the rule.

Thereís no magical formula for average guys or obese guy dating a hot supermodel unless he have money or status.

Thereís a science that showed younger girls like older men too. Older men who are more established. Of course most women donít like older men but they are out there.

For some people, dating someone on Tinder is the same as dating someone older. She might prefer an older man the same way when she sugar. Others may accept a few flaws here and there.


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Re: We have to be more romantic to keep our dates.
« Reply #40 on: September 21, 2022, 02:26:52 PM »
Yep, that's all I'm saying, we shouldn't say the rule applies to all and say things like "the only time this is an exception is"...due to several exceptions out there that we should look at first. For example, this French President, I'm sure he can have pretty much any girl he wants at his age or even younger but he prefers this much older lady:




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