Which type of our old Hmong traditional marriage relationship has lasted longer?

[Reporter]

Don't you think you should find the mommy first? 

Well whoever she is, she will be a lucky gal if she can keep you. However, she'll probably have to watch her back. 

And then there are those who love you but never got you.

Of course. But she had better be an available mommy...

[Reporter]

I prefer to raise a child from an early age on. Not necessarily at infancy but must be a teenager or so. Can't be a 20-or-30-year-old child.

True that this doesn't have to be in a marriage.

But I don't want to be a single parent. I want a child to grow up with both parents. So, a partner or marriage is best. I'm straight, so it would have to be a female partner I'll have.

If the goal is just to "be a daddy", there are several options out there and some doesn't even required marriage or even having a partner. However, money will be required with some options. From what I've seen that's universally true is, time, dedication, and resources will be needed if you want to be a good dad.

And for those that doesn't want to deal with newborn, they can do what Suni Lee's dad did, meet up with a woman that already has kids even at the toddler stage, a kid can still considered the man that help raised him/her dad.

[Believe_N_Me]

Of course. But she had better be an available mommy...

Define "available". 

[Reporter]

Define "available". 

Single, divorced, or widowed or even abandoned and not currently dating or seeking or having feelings for someone else.

Hey, Japanese dolls are like that. Do they come with kids?

[Hung_Low]

Single, divorced, or widowed or even abandoned and not currently dating or seeking or having feelings for someone else.

Hey, Japanese dolls are like that. Do they come with kids?

If you are single, never been married, go for single women... too much baggage with the other.

[Reporter]

If you are single, never been married, go for single women... too much baggage with the other.

Lol. I see what you mean...

[Visualmon]

Reporter, are you going for divorced women with children? 

[Reporter]

Did you not see my definition of "available"?