I don't know, but i think everyone is different. some women think if a guy really likes her he will not stop chasing her. some guys are actually turned off if she puts in too much effort or just as much as he is during the initial stages. i think its fair to say most guys would prefer a girl where she responds with 10-20% of interest in return everytime he shows 80-100% interest in her.
once they become exclusive or married, then it should be 50-50. But then if you're just average Joe or Jane you have to know what your odds are within the hierchy..becau
se lets be honest, Image and status is everything. sad but its just the way social life is.
But yeah, if you are just a average Hmong Joe, just keep chasing that booty until she gives in or put a restraining order on you.
back in the days I always thought what am I doing wrong? how come all these Hmong brothers who doesn't even look half as good as me are getting girls and some getting really pretty girls when they are funny looking as hell...and then i realize, they are persistent, and I was the type that needs reciprocation.
..and you aint going get shit from a Hmong girl if you wait to see if she is ever going to return your call.
but either way, I married a white chick and I couldn't be happier not that race matters. but what im saying is, glad I stayed true to myself. cuz i know a lot of my hmong friends who chased for their wife, either the wife end up cheating or even they themselve cheated and they all divorce...so being persistent is a risk..because it's not really a true 50-50 relationship. at least not from the start.
