Never bring a man into your domain...

[Believe_N_Me]

It's up to him to show you that he can provide. He needs to prove that he can build. He is the one who needs to impress you with his assets.

Let the man love you by being able to give to you.

You know why a lot of women are so upset and go bat-shyt crazy after a breakup? It's because they mad as hell for raising him up. Be supportive and his biggest cheerleader but don't rescue him.

First of all, if a man is in your domain then he will always treat the situation like he is a guest. He won't step up when you need him to. Men respect only what they acquired and earned.

I get it. It feels super wonderful to have a man allow you to lead. He's with your family, doing the things you love, making your dreams come true, etc. etc. It's a beautiful thing. But that is only amazing as long as he doesn't blindside you. You're going to go beserk if he ever betrays you because you gave so much. He gave nothing. God designed men to be the ones to give. Let them give.

The older women in my family used to forewarn all the time. Do not bring a man to your clan. You create opportunities for him to cheat with your female relatives, brothers' wives, your friends, etc. A man is least likely to betray his brothers/friends/etc. They are his tribe, his gang, and the thought will never cross his mind to sleep with their women. Any man who does that will be cut off from the tribe and he is dead to them.

[Believe_N_Me]

Women are so giving. They give their all. They want their man to feel comfortable and loved. Women are truly nurturers. Which is why women feel extremely used and abused whenever they are discarded. It's the best years of their life that they can't get back. Their youth and beauty has been wasted. The labor they put in as if they were his mother is something that women get really upset about.

Men, on the other hand, feel greatly disrespected and unappreciated. They don't regret too much about the money they spent or the material things they gave. 

[JonniJacko]

 Go with the one you trust, not the one you love. The one you can trust is the one that loves you. He doesn't need to be wealthy, just have to always try his best to. Provide.

I think, I'm not a expert. I'm just here to listen, console and maybe protect.

[Believe_N_Me]

Go with the one you trust, not the one you love. The one you can trust is the one that loves you. He doesn't need to be wealthy, just have to always try his best to. Provide.

I think, I'm not a expert. I'm just here to listen, console and maybe protect.

 

When I say it's up to the man to give, I mean he gives whatever he can. This isn't about a man needing to have a mansion and $$$.

And I heavily agree. A woman should be with the man who makes her feel emotionally safe. That is the man who loves her the most.

[JonniJacko]

When I say it's up to the man to give, I mean he gives whatever he can. This isn't about a man needing to have a mansion and $$$.

And I heavily agree. A woman should be with the man who makes her feel emotionally safe. That is the man who loves her the most.

oh, that's right. not sure where the money part came from. maybe I was watching too many gold digger youtube prank videos. lols

reminds me of the story of, a bible story..where two women was fighting over a child, each pulling the child by his arms claiming the child is theirs. The real mother let go because she didn't want to ripped her child's arm off??

[JonniJacko]

It's up to him to show you that he can provide. He needs to prove that he can build. He is the one who needs to impress you with his assets.

Let the man love you by being able to give to you.

You know why a lot of women are so upset and go bat-shyt crazy after a breakup? It's because they mad as hell for raising him up. Be supportive and his biggest cheerleader but don't rescue him.

First of all, if a man is in your domain then he will always treat the situation like he is a guest. He won't step up when you need him to. Men respect only what they acquired and earned.

I get it. It feels super wonderful to have a man allow you to lead. He's with your family, doing the things you love, making your dreams come true, etc. etc. It's a beautiful thing. But that is only amazing as long as he doesn't blindside you. You're going to go beserk if he ever betrays you because you gave so much. He gave nothing. God designed men to be the ones to give. Let them give.

The older women in my family used to forewarn all the time. Do not bring a man to your clan. You create opportunities for him to cheat with your female relatives, brothers' wives, your friends, etc. A man is least likely to betray his brothers/friends/etc. They are his tribe, his gang, and the thought will never cross his mind to sleep with their women. Any man who does that will be cut off from the tribe and he is dead to them.

When you go through the darkest moments, life is not falling apart, It is coming together. It is only the beginning.