I have friends that are divorce...and I try not to suger coat things..I tell them, yes, you guys were truly in love at some point in you guys life but you should of known that it was never a guarantee to begin with...one of my friend, is a single father of 5 children...all 5 children stays with him..while his ex ran away with some wealthy dude because she claims she was deceive into marrying him and robbed her of her youth..I tell him, the damage has been done, whether you knew it or not, you took the gamble, and it didn't pay off.. You gave it your best shot..and that's all it matters. He shows me photos of a new girl he's been seeing one time...and he says, we'll see how it goes..I'm not expecting much..if it blossoms, it does...if it dies...it dies...followi ng year, he tells me, they live together now, she loves the kids, the kids love her...and he literally became teary eye and said Im the only friend that really change his perspective on love/marriage..haha so it worked for him..can't say it'll work for everyone...and even it does...you can't deny the inevitable...o nly guarantee in life is that there is no guarantee to anything...you just give everything that means something to you your best shot...hope for the best, and be ready if the worse happens..haha