This is what happening when the woman wants out but the man does not wan to leave so he will have to play by her rules if he wants to stay in such sad relationship. It says there that the woman has sexual relationship with both guys. It did not say anything about a guy on guy relationship. I hope not
My hmong friend parents are the same. His hmong father, like certain OG would take vacation trips to thailand and to meet women there. He already married someone. His mom knows but brushes off like she doesn't know or care. She's not willingly to get a divorce so she has to play by his rules.