Bad liars are easy to catch, but the sly ones are a lot more discreet. However, neeg coj tsis ncaj ces yeej npam - as the saying goes. Someone who has guilt and things to hide cannot keep it up forever.
- the devil is in the details
- their timeline never adds up
- they have friends/associates that they're only willing to give you vague info about (this is usually the mutual acquaintances between
them and the lover), these friends also appear awkward around you and this is only if they know of your existence
- little nuggets of information reveal themselves
- other people unknowingly give clues and info
- the coincidences are too strong to only be coincidences
And last but not least, you know yourself best. Before you allow anybody to gaslight you, ask yourself this question:
- do you typically feel like this with most people or is it just this person that gives you anxiety?
Don't let someone tell you that you're a crazy, jealous, insecure person especially when you only feel this way with them.
A person who is committed to you, cares about you, and has your best interest would not put you in a position where they could lose your trust.