People can be like a job/career sometimes. You think you really want it but once you're there, it isn't what you thought it would be.
There was this one person who was typically viewed as a nice person. However, I always felt that something was really off. They must've sensed that, too, because it seemed like they tried even harder to win my trust. After months, I finally let my guard down. Needless to say, that is when they turned out to be everything that I initially suspected. Let's just say that they are a very dishonest person and there is hard evidence out there to prove it.
Some day I'll share it on here. It's public record so not like I'm exposing anyone. Or I can PM you the dets. lol
Anyways, I've been disappointed before but I didn't feel as offended as I did with this person. I literally felt betrayed. Everything was a lie, one after another. Nothing but deceit, manipulation, and so on. Probably because this person had ample opportunities to be truthful but lied. In addition, have you ever told a white lie just to get through but then you never brought it up again because it would start sounding too sketchy? Well this person continued to bring up the same lies and present them as truths.
For example, frequently telling people that you're a nurse but nothing you say or do points to that. If you're a nurse, how come you don't know anything about using a tourniquet, and why are you always out shopping like you don't work? This person's stories and the things they said never made sense. Reminds me of the time I ran into a coworker at an out-of-the-way Pho restaurant. She was sitting really close to a guy and they were touching each other's hands. At that time I didn't know her too well so I thought that she was with her husband. One day, a childhood friend of mine was standing in the lobby of our office. We were talking and he said that he was there to pick up his wife for lunch. Yep, she was his wife and that guy I saw her with was definitely NOT the friend I know. Later on she told me that it was her brother who I saw her with. It wasn't even like I brought it up.
When someone tells you that they were only with their brother or sister, but you know the activity sounds off, yep, they're lying.