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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #1 on: September 05, 2023, 11:57:07 PM »
Someone already posted the list in Anonymous:

1. Don't let others dictate your dating life.
2. Don't waste time with clear red flags.
3. Be certain that this situation works for you financially.
4. Be sure you can accept the person for who they are. Be sure they can accept you for who you are.
5. This is not the season to build a mate.
6. Make sure this person interests you on deeper levels.
7. Never subsidize your self esteem by dating younger.
8. Learn from your past mistakes.
9. Dress your age.
10. Pay attention to their relationship history.



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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #2 on: September 05, 2023, 11:58:44 PM »



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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #3 on: September 06, 2023, 01:38:05 PM »
The older you are, the shorter your dating span will be.  Take what is there times by 5 because it will go by fast and wedding bell will be calling you so get ready for a fast ride. 



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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #4 on: September 06, 2023, 03:04:26 PM »
The older you are, the shorter your dating span will be. Take what is there times by 5 because it will go by fast and wedding bell will be calling you so get ready for a fast ride.

Some older adults are in no position to be getting married/re-married. Too many failed relationships tapped them out, both emotionally and financially.




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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #5 on: September 06, 2023, 03:37:55 PM »
Some older adults are in no position to be getting married/re-married. Too many failed relationships tapped them out, both emotionally and financially.

It is a small price to pay to rid of that unspoken of title.  For women, old maid.  For men, old dude.  Plus, to some people, just just want to be complete.  They are tired of being solo and lonely by themselves.  Throw the dice and make the best out of it.  If unlucky, just rinse and repeat.  IT may be costly but there is no price in making a match.  You can't get a favorable result if you do not give anything a try.   O0



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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #6 on: September 06, 2023, 03:48:33 PM »
3. Be certain that this situation works for you financially.
5. This is not the season to build a mate.
8. Learn from your past mistakes.
10. Pay attention to their relationship history.

A majority of older adults fail at the above.



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Re: Harsh Words for Older Singles in a Failed Relationship
« Reply #7 on: September 06, 2023, 03:52:20 PM »
Honestly, if you didn't just get out of a marriage and had an expensive divorce, you have no excuses. You wasted all that time learning nothing and creating nothing, whether you were moving from one failing relationship to another or just stuck in a fruitless relationship.



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