omitting information

[Anonymous]

is omitting information the same thing as keeping a secret or even lying?

for the past few months, my husband has been talking a lot about a new co-worker. for example, he can't seem to carry a conversation without bringing up what the co-worker said or would say on the subject. whenever we go to the store or just see something on tv he'll bring up the co-worker. recently, there was an end of the summer picnic at his company and the only new person in his department is a woman. she acted strange around me and was trying to keep her distance.

my husband referred to the co-worker as a man. now he says that he didn't remember telling me that and i'm making too big of a deal out of it. i'm very bothered and upset, especially because he gaslights me. 

[Anonymous]

Something fishy is going on.

[Anonymous]

I'm starting a new job next week. My boss is super hot. It's only going to be the two of us working together. But to be fair, I told my spouse that my boss is super good-looking. 

I don't know how I keep getting so lucky. This is not the first time someone super hot hired me on the spot to work alongside them.
 

[Anonymous]

Your husband doesn't respect you. That's what I was dealing with, too, from this guy that I was seeing. It eventually became the demise of the relationship.

When someone is so excited and enthusiastic talking about something but they can't give you the whole truth about it, there is definitely something behind it that they know is inappropriate.

Your husband and his coworker most likely have attraction towards each other. That's why he couldn't be honest about her sex.   

[Anonymous]

Something fishy is going on.

I agree totally. He and his work woman are working at each other.

[Anonymous]

Your husband doesn't respect you. That's what I was dealing with, too, from this guy that I was seeing. It eventually became the demise of the relationship.

When someone is so excited and enthusiastic talking about something but they can't give you the whole truth about it, there is definitely something behind it that they know is inappropriate.

Your husband and his coworker most likely have attraction towards each other. That's why he couldn't be honest about her sex.

I think the coworker is just much hotter.

[Anonymous]

is omitting information the same thing as keeping a secret or even lying?

for the past few months, my husband has been talking a lot about a new co-worker. for example, he can't seem to carry a conversation without bringing up what the co-worker said or would say on the subject. whenever we go to the store or just see something on tv he'll bring up the co-worker. recently, there was an end of the summer picnic at his company and the only new person in his department is a woman. she acted strange around me and was trying to keep her distance.

my husband referred to the co-worker as a man. now he says that he didn't remember telling me that and i'm making too big of a deal out of it. i'm very bothered and upset, especially because he gaslights me.

Omission is an action in itself.

[Anonymous]

Nonsense.  There is a disclosure work ethic that we men do not talk about our spouses at work and we do not want to know about your spouses while at work either.  Women at work are build differently.  They tend to talk about their spouses with one another like two sisters would.  If you want to be discrete about your personal life while at work, when there is an annual company's party, you leave your spouses at home.  You can't be talking ill about fat chicks at work and bring your fat wife to do a meet and greet with your co workers.  Leave your personal life at home is your best bet. 

[JonniJacko]

this is life. choosing who to be your life long close friends and life long partner is beyond extremely important. haha time is the most precious and valuable thing in life...and if you're not honest to yourself from the very start of meeting and getting to know someone whether they are worth giving your time and love you will be wasting a lot of time with a whole lot of nothing to begin with.

in this case, I don't think your husband, or wife...is cheating...may be just infactuated with someone...a real cheater would know better to not even mentioning about someone they are lusting over. but then again, this just means eiether your spouse has no common sense or is a little sideways.