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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #15 on: February 22, 2024, 01:18:11 PM »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDPFu9-SqFk

Daycare was only a last resort in the event that one of the parents died OR abandoned the family. The quality has also been getting increasingly worse. The initial idea was to only have a few kids in the care of an adult. Unfortunately, that model does not work since so many people are wanting daycare, and one adult cannot live on the wages of babysitting just two kids.

Folks, it's very easy to prevent yourself from having a baby until you're ready. If having a family is something that you really want, then you should take actions that support having a family.

If you're living paycheck to paycheck, daycare makes even less sense. One of you will be working just to pay daycare expenses.  :idiot2: You might as well just stay home and watch your own baby, especially if you have more than one.



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #16 on: February 22, 2024, 01:40:33 PM »
I'm pointing out your absurdity. Apparently, aborting babies is always YOUR solution.

you are doing it again
saying stuff... like abortion and blaming me for saying abortion
when i clearly didn't even say a thing about abortion


THAT'S STRAIGHT UP NARCISSIST


i was simply saying "the kids are in school cuz both parent are working|

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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #17 on: February 22, 2024, 01:41:03 PM »
A former co-worker opened a daycare. When I went to tour the place, I noticed how institutionali zed everything looked and felt. There was nothing homey about it. It has to be that way because of safety regulations. There is no peace since there are kids everywhere. How is a child suppose to have their quiet time and peaceful play?




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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #18 on: February 22, 2024, 01:42:31 PM »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDPFu9-SqFk

Daycare was only a last resort in the event that one of the parents died OR abandoned the family. The quality has also been getting increasingly worse. The initial idea was to only have a few kids in the care of an adult. Unfortunately, that model does not work since so many people are wanting daycare, and one adult cannot live on the wages of babysitting just two kids.

Folks, it's very easy to prevent yourself from having a baby until you're ready. If having a family is something that you really want, then you should take actions that support having a family.

If you're living paycheck to paycheck, daycare makes even less sense. One of you will be working just to pay daycare expenses.  :idiot2: You might as well just stay home and watch your own baby, especially if you have more than one.

again...

what if both spouse are working???
you spend all these money and thousand of dollars to go to college
to just.... not work and follow your career??

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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #19 on: February 22, 2024, 01:42:57 PM »
Btw, I also know a lot of in-home childcare providers and trust me, your kid is watching tv all day. I mean, they were probably going to do that anyway in your home, but just saying that you are paying a lot for it to happen in another person's home.



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #20 on: February 22, 2024, 01:43:35 PM »
A former co-worker opened a daycare. When I went to tour the place, I noticed how institutionali zed everything looked and felt. There was nothing homey about it. It has to be that way because of safety regulations. There is no peace since there are kids everywhere. How is a child suppose to have their quiet time and peaceful play?

than that is the daycare problem
they should regulated it better
have quiet time... and sleeping etc... for the night folks

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your coworker is not really good



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #21 on: February 22, 2024, 01:45:07 PM »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVAFxOZ0gJQ&t=1201s

"The Ridiculous Idea that Daycare is Perfectly Harmless"



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #22 on: February 22, 2024, 01:47:58 PM »
tell us your solution
don't tell poor people to not have kids

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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #23 on: February 22, 2024, 01:48:23 PM »
than that is the daycare problem
they should regulated it better
have quiet time... and sleeping etc... for the night folks

 ;D ;D ;D

your coworker is not really good

All daycares are like that. There is no privacy for the child. But hey, if you think it's a great thing then you can have your child in daycare. You're already messed up so I'm pretty sure your spawn doesn't need daycare to ruin them.  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #24 on: February 22, 2024, 01:50:11 PM »
All daycares are like that. There is no privacy for the child. But hey, if you think it's a great thing then you can have your child in daycare. You're already messed up so I'm pretty sure your spawn doesn't need daycare to ruin them.  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

LMAO

nope, the daycare i've been to have lots of activities and quiet time
snack and etc...
they help the kids do the homework and etc...

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maybe change your daycare provider???

YMMV



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #25 on: February 22, 2024, 01:51:09 PM »
tell us your solution
don't tell poor people to not have kids

 ;D ;D ;D

Daycare is actually worse for poor people. Not only is it expensive, but the quality in their area is subpar.

Our parents' generation circumvented this problem by working different shifts. Some had grandparents to watch the children.

Wow, to think that your wife is an RN who takes care of other people but don't have the desire to take care of her own. Oh, because of her career.  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #26 on: February 22, 2024, 01:52:58 PM »
Oh but wait! Disclaimer!

You don't work so this shouldn't be an issue for you. However, we now have a child taking care of another child. CPS definitely dropped the ball this time.  :2funny:



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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #27 on: February 22, 2024, 01:53:40 PM »
Daycare is actually worse for poor people. Not only is it expensive, but the quality in their area is subpar.

Our parents' generation circumvented this problem by working different shifts. Some had grandparents to watch the children.

Wow, to think that your wife is an RN who takes care of other people but don't have the desire to take care of her own. Oh, because of her career.  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

LMAO

typical hmong people
counting on their elderly SSI parent to watch their kids

too funny man
i thought you live alone

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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #28 on: February 22, 2024, 01:56:57 PM »
sooo far your solution is

1. if you are poor don't have kids
2. let your elderly parent take care/watch your kids


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Re: The negative impact of childcare
« Reply #29 on: February 22, 2024, 02:42:26 PM »
Not surprising that hmgRock is making the same repeated argument - it's a question of income. This is not a debate about income. Also, this always devolve into an issue that apparently only women should have a say in. lol

The truth is, it doesn't have to be mom who stays home. Dads can very well be a stay-at-home parent, too. However, many woman can't stomach having a husband who doesn't work, which is strange given the fact that plenty of woman put up with a loser man anyways.  ::)



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