Do you need to know everything about your spouse?

[Believe_N_Me]

How much of yourself do you share with your spouse?

A lot of married people do shady things without their spouse's knowledge. Are these just harmless gestures or a gateway to more risky behavior?

What is your threshold?

[JonniJacko]

I need to know everything, every little details. Lol j.k I don't care as long as she is honest and confess she was wrong or should have done something differently. It's about second chances and new beginnings for some. Nobody's perfect except for. Mr perfect. 

[Believe_N_Me]

Didn't there used to be a Mr. Perfect username?

Anyways, some people are more shady than others. It will be very hard to trust them.

For example, I know a person who does a lot of stupid things that upset me but I don't feel betrayed. The lack of trust I have is because of his incompetency.

There is another person who is competent and to my knowledge has not done the foolish things like the other person. However, I don't emotionally trust him because he is manipulative. His stories never add up and I felt things were off. I've come to learn that he isn't a person of integrity and screws over a lot of people including those who are closest to him.   

[JonniJacko]

This guy use to come in here?!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ce-MYcuhVPw

[Believe_N_Me]

I just lost my appetite.

[JonniJacko]

Why? He es el Perfecto.

[Believe_N_Me]

When you're 45+ years old, you want a spouse who fulfills you intellectually, spiritually, and physically. This is the person whom you're going to be hanging out with most of the time. At this age, people don't go out as much with friends and so who you pick for a spouse is important. You want someone compatible and who will give you peace.

I don't need to know everything about my spouse, but we can only get to that point when a lot of trust has already been established. If he gives me anxiety then it just isn't going to work out. I might love him but he's not good for my health.

[JonniJacko]

When you're 45+ years old, you want a spouse who fulfills you intellectually, spiritually, and physically. This is the person whom you're going to be hanging out with most of the time. At this age, people don't go out as much with friends and so who you pick for a spouse is important. You want someone compatible and who will give you peace.

I don't need to know everything about my spouse, but we can only get to that point when a lot of trust has already been established. If he gives me anxiety then it just isn't going to work out. I might love him but he's not good for my health.

40's and going forward, means knowing you're pretty much halfway there and no more time for fun n games. yeah, I feel you. Life...it really is quick.

[Tajo]

My husband & I we share almost everything except our bank accounts.   

[Prude]

My husband & I we share almost everything except our bank accounts.   

Correct English and saying "I" after "My husband." Whenever you refer to someone and you as a group or team,
you mention them first.

But I don't think it's good practice to use the ampersand "&" in a sentence of words. 

So, you two have been hitting off for quite some years now, Tajo. Why not share
all your business earnings and employment salary with him, too? Then you can
expect him to do the same with his.

[Prude]

Perfection isn't what people should look for. Or else we would have to turn to those angels
in Heaven for spouses. But we are on this physical Earth. We aren't perfect. Nor anyone
we may see around us. Let's not expect perfection in our other persons.