yup each year cut things out. and/or bring new things in. change is always good for people. for better and not for worst. you change because you evolved as a human being. some are exactly where they wannabe. me im right where i thought id be. i aint 30 something and divorced with kids. sorry i sound stereotypical but hey look around us. its the truth. i mean? i may NOT have the job idealogicaly that i dreamt of but i wouldnt have the other stuff as baggage holding me back. that urge to wanna go out and play when i know my kids need me. i have a few buddies like that. and im glad im not like them. that im glad i went my way in life the way i did. now i appreciate it more. cause im more mature in terms of this and that. dont worry tee, youll find your way. just look at me. i believe im finding my way as each second ticks off my hour glass of life. so all and all. enjoy it.