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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you need to know everything about your spouse?
« on: May 06, 2024, 11:22:23 AM »
I just lost my appetite.
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obligation is different from free will though. If one is going to feel obligated, they shouldn't even create a family.
It's hard to maintain being that of an acquaintance if you are
opposite sexes. Feelings will draw you out of that into the friendship
status and then into a third, perhaps even a fourth--lovers and then
spouses--respectively. (Beyond that, of course, ex-spouses for many.)
I was first an acquaintance to a woman. We only knew each other
in the community and respected each other so. She was married
and I wasn't.
Then I became a friend when she had domestic issues with
her husband. He had taken on another woman.
Notice I wrote that "I became a friend", not that "she became
a friend."
I kept my position as an acquaintance but she didn't. She
kept calling me to talk about their situation and even
cried to me over the phone. One day she admitted to me
that she missed me and that she has accidentally told
him that she missed me.
That's a lie women are telling themselves, thinking no one outside of their spouse will/can love them. The world is full of men but I think for women to find that person/love, we need to value ourself, not be like a fish dying without water, a woman dying without the love of a man. The key to finding love is be yourself, value yourself and a man will value you. If he does not, he's not the one. A man who truly values you will find a treasure in you.