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The Single & Dating Scenes / Bestowing more knowledge 2
« on: November 05, 2022, 10:51:55 AM »
Friends with benefits - She finds you attractive and doesn’t expect money she’ll still date you even if you’re broke or have money. You got her in the friend zoned because you’re not ready for a relationship.

If you’re the Boyfriend/Husband - She finds you attractive and you got money and both of you are ready to settle down.
Now she can also not be attracted to you too, but she sees you got money and resources and you’re a provider so she stays with you.

Friend zone - You’re average or below and ugly, unattractive. You’re not financially stable.

Creep zoned - You’re unattractive, broke, and just clingy.

This list isn’t black or white but just a general idea.


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The Single & Dating Scenes / Bestowing y’all with more knowledge
« on: October 27, 2022, 09:19:33 PM »
Women are naturally attracted to men who have the looks.

Women like men that have money because of the lifestyle he can provide like buying a home, nice cars, traveling, financial security etc.

Women don’t like you for your personality only. You need more than this.

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If you take sex out of the equation, most men would not deal with most women.

If you take money out of the equation, most women won’t deal with most men.  :2funny:

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Men have to become, women just are.
« on: September 26, 2022, 11:14:49 AM »
A loser girl still gets a lot of attention, but a loser guy won’t get any attention.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Women date up
« on: August 30, 2022, 06:20:48 PM »
I’ve been studying the manosphere culture for over 20 years, most of the sub 5 guys had a attractive woman due to his money, status, and or resources. But according to PUAs, it’s because he have game. Nope, 10 times out of 10, he’s providing something that the other guys can’t. Unless I see some proof  of the ugly broke guys with hot women I will believe otherwise.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 05, 2022, 09:30:10 PM »
You’re not supposed to work hard if a woman is genuinely interested in you.

If you have to work hard for it then women probably didn’t have high interest.

If a girl like you, she will make it easy for you to meet up. If she’s not interested, she won’t care.

Low interest women are generally not going to sleep with you.

Most of my successful dates came from women messaging me first. 

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Men and women are different
« on: August 03, 2022, 06:21:37 AM »
Women are not hardwired to look for an equal. They are hardwired to look for a superior.

Women date up. This is why you never see a hot girl dating a man working at McDonald, but most guys won’t care if she’s working at Starbucks as long as she’s hot.

Men and women have wildly different sexual strategies that work as survival tactics as well, it’s all part of our biological hardwiring. 

Women love opportunistica lly and men love idealistically .

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Hard to swallow pill
« on: August 02, 2022, 06:57:45 AM »
You can’t be a low value male and shame women. If you have no options with women and you’re broke, stop asking women what they bring to the table. No women is ever gonna care or love you if you bring nothing to the table.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Approach is about looks
« on: July 14, 2022, 04:26:37 PM »
Anyone still approach girls at the New Year? Does it still work? :2funny:

They never “worked” for me cuz I’m too ugly, but yes, you could possibly get a result in 2007-9 era since women didn’t really have social media and online dating was stigmatized.

If you’re ugly or even average you will get rejected  :2funny: 

Out of the 50s I approached maybe like 3 was into me. And them girls were average or below. It’s not worth the time and effort. I could never get a Stacies because they all go for the bad looking guys (Chad, Tyrone) is what we called it. 

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Do you know what frame control is?
« on: July 09, 2022, 03:01:39 AM »
The person most invested in a relationship feels the most attraction and the person least invested has the most amount of power.

Now ask yourself this: who's controlling the frame right now. You or her? 

Power dynamic is REAL. Overtime it's gonna lead to who's chasing who.

So how do you know when you CONTROL the frame? When she wants to PLEASE YOU rather than be PLEASED.

The beta male worries how he might please his woman. The Alpha male's woman worries how she might PLEASE HIM.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Reality check
« on: July 08, 2022, 06:54:23 AM »
If a guy is a 5/10 or below, have a job but makes on a lower end say 25k Per year and he believe in his mind that he is a 10/10 because he has confidence and believes in himself and he deserves a full package 10/10 girlfriend. I will  explain to him that it doesn’t work like that.

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Beauty & Fashion / Looking for a pair of designer shoe
« on: March 16, 2021, 10:12:49 PM »
Solved

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Faith & Beliefs / Ask me about Calvinism
« on: November 27, 2020, 10:35:13 AM »
I took some time to research Calvinist theology and I would say I’m leaning toward this doctrine more than Arminian.

I used to believe that Christ atoned for all people. I now accepted Christ death is only for the elect and I’ll tell you why.

If Christ died for all people, then that means all people would be saved. If some people end up in hell, then that means Christ death didn’t include them in the atonement. If Jesus Christ suffered for all, but only some people believe and the rest are lost, then that means Christ suffered for nothing.

For example, we read in scripture in 1 Tim that God desires all to be saved right? Does all include everyone? Or only the believers?

Here is where the paradox lies. God desires for all to be saved, but yet He has only elected some. This means that what God has plan is not always what He desire.

Once you study more in depth you will understand why Reformed theology makes more sense.

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Beauty & Fashion / Selfies
« on: April 24, 2020, 12:33:09 PM »
Rate my photos from 1-10

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The Single & Dating Scenes / This is how genuine attraction work
« on: April 20, 2020, 12:20:50 PM »
My coach and his gf just talked about this. When they met, he asked her out. A week later they met for coffee around 5pm. When they showed up the coffee places was closed down. So they went out for dinner instead. They had dinner, then afterward they went on a long walk. Then around 10pm they went to a bar where they had a few drinks. Drinks led to one thing and another, and by midnight they were in bed together. Funny thing, it was his birthday. But he didnt let her know until later. From there, if they wanted to hangout they did. She was super blunt and she didn’t play any games. Nor did he. That's why he liked her so much in the beginning. He noticed she wasn't needy, angry, and that she didn't play games. And on the days they couldn't hang out, there was no drama. After that date, he and her saw each other every single weekend. They just connected so much. Yeah, his gf told me she cant remember any chasing. They both have mutual respect for each other.

Moral of the story is this. They both have neutral attraction for each other. They hung out because they enjoy being in each other’s presence. She did not have to try that much on him. Nor did he.

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