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General Relationship / Re: Has anyone ever experienced "ghosting" from a boyfriend/girlfriend?
« on: June 18, 2018, 01:21:06 PM »
When I was around 24 to 28, I ghosted several girls/women, ranging from 22 to 28 years of age; 1 korean, 1 Chinese, 1 Philipino, 1 white, 1 Viet, and 3 Hmong girls.
The only one I truly regret ghosting is a Hmong girl from the West area. She was 23 at the time and I was just a bit older than her. She was decent looking; slim, somewhat curvy. Very good personality; both modern and traditional in her. And a nice heart; caring, thoughtful. Never had a boyfriend, until me(?), as she was waiting for a fairytale to occur. But we never even officially “went out.” Just sorted hung out and talked alot. And I never “did anything of that sort” to her. I could have, but I didn't. She would have been the perfect wife had I not been who I am... I was a picky person back then and she was a tad bit on the shorter side. Back then I was thinking if I had kids, I want them to be taller than me. So yes, that shallow point was the obstacle... If I was just looking to fool around then I would have and could have, but I know it would break her heart and spirit if I had done that only to tell her there’s no future for us. And so I just walked away. Didn’t answer her phone calls. Didn’t reply to her texts. Didn’t write back to her emails... That was years ago (before there was Facebook) and it still haunts me whenever I think back to it. Good thing is I live quite a distance away so chances of us running into one another is unlikely.
The only one I truly regret ghosting is a Hmong girl from the West area. She was 23 at the time and I was just a bit older than her. She was decent looking; slim, somewhat curvy. Very good personality; both modern and traditional in her. And a nice heart; caring, thoughtful. Never had a boyfriend, until me(?), as she was waiting for a fairytale to occur. But we never even officially “went out.” Just sorted hung out and talked alot. And I never “did anything of that sort” to her. I could have, but I didn't. She would have been the perfect wife had I not been who I am... I was a picky person back then and she was a tad bit on the shorter side. Back then I was thinking if I had kids, I want them to be taller than me. So yes, that shallow point was the obstacle... If I was just looking to fool around then I would have and could have, but I know it would break her heart and spirit if I had done that only to tell her there’s no future for us. And so I just walked away. Didn’t answer her phone calls. Didn’t reply to her texts. Didn’t write back to her emails... That was years ago (before there was Facebook) and it still haunts me whenever I think back to it. Good thing is I live quite a distance away so chances of us running into one another is unlikely.