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Marriage & Family Life / Re: When You Were Going Through A Divorce
« on: March 06, 2022, 12:04:23 PM »
Its a lot of pain going through this process. A lot of time we like to be left alone but a nice hey, how are you doing from our favorite friends can help. Or a nice lunch dinner is helpful. I find comfort in visiting spas and treating myself. No one truly knows what the one hurting feels eventhough they have gone through it. It does hurt. There's embarassment, shame, guilts and a lot of revisiting past memories in asking what happened.. what if and what could have been. No one wants to be in this position. No one asks to feel this way or of the pain. It just happens. So to be a good friend... ask once in a while, if they are doing ok. Ask once in a while if they like to grab a meal. Ask once in a while if they like to do a road trip.. only ask if your spouse has no issue with it and will not get involved. I also see where the divorcee falls for her friend's husband cuz they were so involved in helping her heal. Thats why I try to stay far away from everyone's husband in respect for their relationship and their friendship.