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Marriage & Family Life / The way people are...
« on: May 10, 2021, 06:07:15 AM »
When a married hmong woman doesn't work; the mother-in-law is quick to judge and tells her son "Get rid of her, she's useless. She's lazy. She's dumb. Stop being her slave."

But when a hmong son doesn't work. The mother-in-law tells her daughter-in-law "Be patient with him. Take care of him."

When the daughter-in-law is sick or disabled and can't do much. The mother-in-law and son is quick to judge and will hop on to another female quick. Abandonment at its best or like some men says "survival of the fittest." The mother-in-law will say "Allow your husband to marry a niam yau so that the new wife can help around the house and help you too. Since you are disabled and can't do anything."

When the son is disabled and the daughter-in-law is the bread winner, the mother-in-law will say to her "Please be patient with your husband. He is disabled and can't do much but your kids need him. So, do your best to take care of him and forgive him for what he lacks since he can't help take care of the family."

Pretty stupid. Hmong people are like that. Men are selfish like that. They will abandon their hard working good wife if she becomes ill. Yet women tend to stick around and cope with it and help their spouse until the very end. Bad hmong mother-in-laws are also like that. If they have a good daughter in law but never like her, this is the fastest route to get rid of her. But oh behold! If its her son, she doesn't want the daughter in law to abandon him. Psh...hmong aws.. Why do I find myself hating Hmong people and men in general when I see this too often??!

Men, why would you abandon your sick wife when she always stood by you?

Women, would you hang on or abandon?

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Money & Investment / Cemex
« on: August 12, 2020, 12:44:34 AM »
My friend talks highly of this. She states that it's expected to have good return/dividends. What are your thoughts?

Per share, we are looking at average $3.

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Beauty & Fashion / Need SHAMPOO that helps with thinning hair
« on: March 01, 2019, 03:48:11 AM »
Any suggestions?

After my kids, my hair is thinning bad and has not been growing for years!

Any suggestion/advice? TIA!!!

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Pet Forum / The new addition into my little family
« on: July 09, 2015, 03:01:40 PM »
She's so guilty lol

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Funeral Rituals & Customs / very disappointed funeral
« on: August 26, 2014, 04:11:24 AM »
we had a traditional funeral for a great grandmother. 1 of my nyab is traditional and the 2 others are christians.
if it was not for my traditional nyab, nothing would get done. no food would be cooked and no items, ingredients, supplies would be bought.
my 2 other christian nyab just dranked their lungs out till they were drunk and never lifted a finger to cook. they sat inside and slept on benches where their tight clothed bodies were exposed to all the guest and woke up to play cards with mens.
the worst part, the 2 christian nyab brought drama to the funeral and fought other ppl. all 30 yr olds plus. shame. shame. shameful. embarassing.

what i want to say is, all you christian nyab, don't be like that. you married into a shaman family, learn and respect our ways, as we do, yours. stop the embarassment.

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Arts & Photography / I need help selecting a good camera
« on: October 28, 2013, 04:38:39 AM »
NVM got my Nikon D7000 kit. delete plz.

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Online Journal / Long Time Ago
« on: September 10, 2013, 07:05:26 PM »
Long time ago, In a new town that I was not accustomed to, I helped these two elderly hmong couple whom I did not know; that were kicked out of their house. I saw them walking and crying along a busy road and picked them up. My heart ached for them. I sent them home and almost died that day. But I did what I'm sure most of you would have done. It has been 10 years. I wonder how they are doing. If they have passed on, I'm sure they're much happier than they were before in that rotten family of theirs. If not, I hope they are doing well. I think of them from time to time. It's been such a long time ago.

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Hmong Culture & History / when you buy a house - hmoob kev cai
« on: May 14, 2013, 04:28:36 AM »
what do you look for? count the house number? what is the thing they do with putting rice grain in a bowl outside the property and going back to look at it? corn throwing inside home? please explain to us hmongs that do not know of such thing and why we do it.

thank you!

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