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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on April 24, 2024, 11:52:56 PM

Title: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: theking on April 24, 2024, 11:52:56 PM: I am attracted to my husband’s married friend — I’m starting to fall in love with him

I am an unhappily married woman with young children. I am attracted to a friend of mine and my husband’s, but he is also married. He’s a bit older, and I can’t tell for sure if he has feelings for me, but sometimes I suspect it. He has made me jewelry and gifts, and I’ve caught him looking at me a few times.

We have exchanged messages on social media and he often asks me questions about myself — what I like, etc. He’s just so quiet that I can’t tell if it all means anything. I could never leave my husband and break up my family, and I could never break up someone else’s family. But I’m starting to wonder and sometimes think I really am falling in love with him. What should I do?
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Title: Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: Prude on April 27, 2024, 12:17:31 AM: If he was a true friend, he wouldn't be writing to his friend's
wife on Facebook or anywhere else.

But, obviously, he has had the hots for his friend's wife.

Now that she is having reciprocating feelings for him, I think
what will happen soon.

If I was him, I wouldn't hurt my wife nor my friend. I would never
has texted his wife in the first place.
Title: Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: Dok_Champa on April 30, 2024, 05:53:40 PM: Nothing good will come out from such affair (that's what it'll be). If you play with fire you will get burn. I would say if a person is that miserable in the marriage, have the courage to leave and do everyone a favor and yes one door may closes and another open. Life is full of possibilities but start on the right foundation and love will blooms....a love that you can be proud of, both can be proud of.
Title: Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: ProudLao on April 30, 2024, 08:42:00 PM: If you’re no longer in love with someone set them free. And if you have any human decency, leave the two parties alone.
Title: Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on May 01, 2024, 08:51:17 AM: Karma always get them.

People who do this do not go on to find peace. They will keep repeating the pattern with unsuspecting victims. That's why it's so important to always pay attention to their relationship history.
Title: Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?
Post by: theking on May 03, 2024, 11:44:27 PM: LOVE IT! when the clique members continue to do the opposite of what they say because it's just proves me right and YES, it's nice to RIGHT! O0 ;D