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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: YAX on February 06, 2019, 10:41:51 AM

Title: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: YAX on February 06, 2019, 10:41:51 AM
If a lady cheats on her husband and she does it because she's no longer in love with him.  Why would she hide it?

Can any lady explain this behavior?  I don't get it.
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: YAX on February 06, 2019, 11:07:00 AM
Maybe.  Or could they be afraid that it might not work out with the new one and they want an anchor, just in case?
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 06, 2019, 11:15:44 AM
If a lady cheats on her husband and she does it because she's no longer in love with him.  Why would she hide it?

Can any lady explain this behavior?  I don't get it.

I'm only writing what I think ok?    Let's see....I think the biggest is fear... and you can fill in the blank.....

Also, about cheaters...or whatever name people put it...  there's many reason why people do what they do.....and some are valid and some aren't.....

But whatever the reasons(s), have the courage to get rid of the old ones before you start a new one.  This is the best way to build a lasting relationship and trust, life lesson.

Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Reporter on February 07, 2019, 06:58:29 AM
YAX, didn't you know a married Hmong woman and her suitor would be charged by the husband's relatives if she made it public?

If a lady cheats on her husband and she does it because she's no longer in love with him.  Why would she hide it?

Can any lady explain this behavior?  I don't get it.
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: YAX on February 07, 2019, 09:25:09 AM
YAX, didn't you know a married Hmong woman and her suitor would be charged by the husband's relatives if she made it public?
yeah, but good luck suing if he's not Hmong though.  ;D
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Reporter on February 08, 2019, 09:19:26 AM
Didn't you also know that if her Hmong husband finds out, that they could both be killed before he shoots himself?

yeah, but good luck suing if he's not Hmong though.  ;D
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 11, 2019, 09:34:10 AM
depends.
O0 O0 O0  well said on your response....  I'd say the same thing too.
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Reporter on February 11, 2019, 10:22:35 AM
Guns don't discriminate, R.

Didn't you also know that if her Hmong husband finds out, that they could both be killed before he shoots himself?
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: VillainousHero on February 13, 2019, 07:17:29 PM
wicked human nature
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Korin on February 13, 2019, 07:30:49 PM
If a man did it, it's just what men's do....
If a woman did it, oh....she gonna die..lol

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Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: floaty on March 01, 2019, 03:24:05 AM
Because of their history together. No longer in love but hanging onto a history.
Title: Re: Ladies who cheat on their husbands. I don't get something...
Post by: Peachy Fish on March 01, 2019, 03:29:24 AM
I agree with Floaty.

Quite honestly, told my husband if he ever even thinks to cheat, hope he tells me 1st, so we can part ways. I will do that for him, too.