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Marriage & Family Life / Re: No one loves you more than your spouse

« Last post by JonniJacko on May 04, 2024, 06:09:00 PM »

The secret to a long-lasting marriage is to never leave.

Learn to not allow yourself to get emotionally tied to your spouse. That way you don't feel so hurt when they disappoint you, and you're never afraid to leave if it comes to that point. Oddly enough, when you aren't emotionally attached to them, they respect you more.

This is something male dating coaches tells males to do. This is mind games, in other words deception. lols The ones, men and women, looking or desiring for the real thing will turn away from people with this type of mindset. A marriage/comittment is about going all in, showing all cards, and see if the odds are in each other's favor...saying to themselves, this person is worth going all in for, and if busts, at least you know, than to never know.... Better you know 3-4 months, than 3-4 years later, or 30-40 years even, later on...We see this happen right before our eyes. It's not because the love died down or ran its course, it's because one or both partners were't brutally honest from the start, or didn't show or willing to throw all their cards on the table from the start....

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Opposite Sex Friends

« Last post by JonniJacko on May 04, 2024, 05:20:48 PM »

one little thing leads to another, then to another.

it really depends on each couple...Perso nally, I don't really care..if she is going to lunch with a male co worker or long time friend, let me know, or invite me along...Is she says, no worries, He's gay...I say, ask for a double date, I have a gay friend too...lols some gay people pretend to be gay to get close to women..

honestly, its safe to play it safe..if your spouse do the same and you won't like it, don't do it.

Just glad I'm not married...subc onsciously I foresee all these type of issues...We all might as well just act like how they do it in the animal channels...lma o

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: A decade is a good chunk of time just to get stabbed on the back

« Last post by JonniJacko on May 04, 2024, 05:07:44 PM »

I know someone who's wife did the same. Almost 10 years. He knew he should leave, but he kept her around, but now he's cheating left and right on her...lols

point here is, if you cheat on someone, bare in mind, they will probably eventually get back at you if the accept you back....if someone cheats on you, you not might, you will cheat on them...this mean using them for other means...if not for intimacy with others.

this is how human nature works...if you cheat, or they cheat. IMO, it is best to leave....hangi ng on is like hanging onto a corpse...lols

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: No one loves you more than your spouse

« Last post by JonniJacko on May 04, 2024, 05:00:41 PM »

It's not so much about buying the cow first or not. Or someone wanting to test drive first, it's really about who is serious about buying and keeping, and who is buying but plan to get a refund...or someone who just want to kill time with no intention of buying anything because they call in sick for work, and is killing time at the store before going home to their spouse and say work is slow so Im home early...lols.. .or work is busy, so they asked me to do overtime...lol s

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General Discussion / Re: White People smh

« Last post by Visualmon on May 04, 2024, 04:59:32 PM »

London cops don't have the baton to defend themselves from a sword. 

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General Discussion / Re: Perhaps the grass isn't greener on the other side for some that left California?

« Last post by Prude on May 04, 2024, 03:59:09 PM »

This might not have been due to returns but
new residents moving from other states?

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General Discussion / Re: Northwestern University caved to the Pro-Hamas...

« Last post by Prude on May 04, 2024, 03:55:07 PM »

American students have conscience. They are the country's future and the
schools' survival. Universities and colleges need to bow to them.

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General Discussion / Re: To stop Israel from bombing in Gaza...

« Last post by Prude on May 04, 2024, 03:53:43 PM »

Have you watched Mel Gibson's movie "The Passion of the Crist"?

Unrelated, of course.

But this way in Gaza, what would you do? Israel knows it's not
fighting Hamas alone anymore.

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General Discussion / Re: if Israel is such evil...

« Last post by Prude on May 04, 2024, 03:51:28 PM »

I want
foods, water, and shelters in every human way
for the innocent civilians. Let them have their
ways and their lives.

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General Discussion / Re: White People smh

« Last post by Prude on May 04, 2024, 03:46:18 PM »

Those cops should have been on
how to handle a sword or stick with another
stick or with just hands. They didn't need
to take down this boy with tasers or guns.

Cops need to learn Kung Fu and other
forms or martial arts.