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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: theking on January 28, 2022, 11:08:06 PM

Title: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on January 28, 2022, 11:08:06 PM
...so he remains single all these times. He has shared with me that he has several female friends and co-workers that want to date him and he has given a couple of them a try but once they are in the dating mode, they've changed just like an unpredictable weather forecast so he has given up on finding a mate for a couple of decades now.

Now, he won't move passed friendship or co-workers status anymore due to the lessons he has learned over the years. He still hangs out with female friends and co-workers but as friends only. He said, being single has been pretty stress free in the last couple decades because he can still get just about everything a man wants but without the commitment and drama.

I told him that it's his life so if he's happy and content, continue!

Having a mate is not a requirement in life so one should do what makes one happy and live life to the fullest regardless IMO.  O0
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on January 28, 2022, 11:12:05 PM
And no, he's not alone  ;D:

(https://i.imgur.com/ZGkANDu.png)
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on January 28, 2022, 11:13:21 PM
I'm sure on the other side of the spectrum, there are women that feel the same as my friend and just don't understand men so they rather remain single too ... ???
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 29, 2022, 08:23:43 AM
No one understands women.
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Dok_Champa on January 29, 2022, 09:40:54 AM
He and men like him have given up on love and I sense some insecurity issues lurking that make it hard to develop a commitment with a woman, my opinion.  You will see a predictable pattern..

As that saying goes, "It's me, not you"  holds true!  It's not about not understanding women.
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: DuMa on January 29, 2022, 10:34:19 AM
When you are married or in committed relationship, you go on automatic friendship zone.  If you give that vibe then nothing happens unless the woman is a man killer and she's been around the block too many times so she is not too shy to be a homewrecker.

When you flirt, you are giving people that you are of the single and open to mingle. 

Don't be like the reporter thank you, there I said it.  Follow me for more recipe  :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 29, 2022, 08:18:08 PM
I'm always confident that someone hot overseas will take me no matter what...I can wait for that, even if that means missing some hot chances here.

When you are married or in committed relationship, you go on automatic friendship zone.  If you give that vibe then nothing happens unless the woman is a man killer and she's been around the block too many times so she is not too shy to be a homewrecker.

When you flirt, you are giving people that you are of the single and open to mingle. 

Don't be like the reporter thank you, there I said it.  Follow me for more recipe  :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: NtsesHnub on January 31, 2022, 04:57:32 PM
MGTOW O0
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on January 31, 2022, 05:01:12 PM
Plenty of women also feel the same about men due to lack of understanding so they rather stay single too:

(https://i.imgur.com/piRR3q9.png)
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on January 31, 2022, 05:07:38 PM
My friend told me that he prefers to talk to me most about things like that because I just state the facts versus trying to be persuasive one way or another or tells him he has to do or be this or that... O0

My first question to those types of questions/situation has always been: Are you happy?

And yes, what I've said to him and others is factual such as having a mate is a not requirement in life, having kids is a not requirement in life, and getting married is not a requirement in life.

As long as one is happy, one can choose to live how one sees fit... O0
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: DuMa on January 31, 2022, 05:24:16 PM
I'm always confident that someone hot overseas will take me no matter what...I can wait for that, even if that means missing some hot chances here.

so you know you have an option there eh? 

Rule of thumb is to never let your last option be an option.  Just like a squirrel hiding his nut, he is not going to eat his nut unless it is his last and final option. 

I tell you what.  The reason why so and so or yourself is still hungry is because you guys are not hungry enough.  My raging hormone does not allow me to be single for a long time.  You know how dangerous it is if you keep all them sperms in your system and not ejaculate?  No problem, your body has a mechanism for it.  It is called wet dreams.  There, I said it again.   :2funny:

Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 31, 2022, 05:44:01 PM
Shh...No sperm released. But notice I have no child support hanging out there.

so you know you have an option there eh? 

Rule of thumb is to never let your last option be an option.  Just like a squirrel hiding his nut, he is not going to eat his nut unless it is his last and final option. 

I tell you what.  The reason why so and so or yourself is still hungry is because you guys are not hungry enough.  My raging hormone does not allow me to be single for a long time.  You know how dangerous it is if you keep all them sperms in your system and not ejaculate?  No problem, your body has a mechanism for it.  It is called wet dreams.  There, I said it again.   :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: ProudLao on January 31, 2022, 06:28:31 PM
...so he remains single all these times. He has shared with me that he has several female friends and co-workers that want to date him and he has given a couple of them a try but once they are in the dating mode, they've changed just like an unpredictable weather forecast so he has given up on finding a mate for a couple of decades now.

Now, he won't move passed friendship or co-workers status anymore due to the lessons he has learned over the years. He still hangs out with female friends and co-workers but as friends only. He said, being single has been pretty stress free in the last couple decades because he can still get just about everything a man wants but without the commitment and drama.

I told him that it's his life so if he's happy and content, continue!

Having a mate is not a requirement in life so one should do what makes one happy and live life to the fullest regardless IMO.  O0

A couple of decades is a long time to be alone. His frame of mind is set. He no longer can be in the same realms as the other men and women when it comes to relationships. He will be getting a dog as companionship as he gets older.
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: ProudLao on January 31, 2022, 06:30:54 PM
No one understands women.

Not even women does lol
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: ProudLao on January 31, 2022, 06:31:41 PM
He and men like him have given up on love and I sense some insecurity issues lurking that make it hard to develop a commitment with a woman, my opinion.  You will see a predictable pattern..

As that saying goes, "It's me, not you"  holds true!  It's not about not understanding women.

Yup, he’s done with love.
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: ProudLao on January 31, 2022, 06:32:54 PM
When you are married or in committed relationship, you go on automatic friendship zone.  If you give that vibe then nothing happens unless the woman is a man killer and she's been around the block too many times so she is not too shy to be a homewrecker.

When you flirt, you are giving people that you are of the single and open to mingle. 

Don't be like the reporter thank you, there I said it.  Follow me for more recipe  :2funny:

Is reporter a womanizer? Lol wait isn’t t that you?  ;D
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 31, 2022, 07:04:18 PM
He says he has recipes.

Is reporter a womanizer? Lol wait isn’t t that you?  ;D
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: DuMa on January 31, 2022, 07:24:30 PM
Is reporter a womanizer? Lol wait isn’t t that you?  ;D


Me :  I'm not a player, I just get what I want   :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: DuMa on January 31, 2022, 07:25:54 PM
He says he has recipes.

yup, I can feed you in the right direction so you don't have to go on a hunger strike. 

Been too long in that old body.  You need to release the stress.   Already 1 month into this year and I'm releasing my stress in vegas by this coming weekend but you don't need to know that.  I'm just saying   :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 31, 2022, 07:55:51 PM
Is reporter a womanizer? Lol wait isn’t t that you?  ;D


Me :  I'm not a player, I just get what I want   :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Reporter on January 31, 2022, 07:56:22 PM
No way. I like what I am not doing.

yup, I can feed you in the right direction so you don't have to go on a hunger strike. 

Been too long in that old body.  You need to release the stress.   Already 1 month into this year and I'm releasing my stress in vegas by this coming weekend but you don't need to know that.  I'm just saying   :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: NtsesHnub on January 31, 2022, 08:13:39 PM
Is reporter a womanizer? Lol wait isn’t t that you?  ;D
Some PH females thought me as such in the past :2funny:
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: theking on February 01, 2022, 07:55:38 PM
if all else fails...a chisel jaw line and being a bad boy seem to work for a lot of women...lols fricken idiot women... ;D

https://www.foxnews.com/world/mugshot-of-wanted-convicted-burglar-in-uk (https://www.foxnews.com/world/mugshot-of-wanted-convicted-burglar-in-uk)


Reminds me of this Stockton convict that garnered so many female fans that a model agency hired him as soon as he was released from prison  ;D:

(https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/07/Jeremy_Meeks_Mug_Shot.jpg/640px-Jeremy_Meeks_Mug_Shot.jpg)
Title: Re: Got a friend that's about my age that just don't understand women
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 05, 2022, 05:01:14 AM
These days how can anybody understand women when they can't even tell us in simple terms, "what a woman is?" 

Apparently, a woman is no longer someone born with female parts and have xx chromosomes.