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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Visualmon on May 29, 2022, 01:03:43 AM

Title: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 29, 2022, 01:03:43 AM: Do y'all still want to live with toxic family or do y'all want to move out the house?
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Reporter on May 29, 2022, 06:44:15 AM: To reach one's goal, one must leave. Can't let toxic people get in the way.

There are many goals: 1. romance, 2. education, 3. career, and 4. other aspirations.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: ProudLao on May 30, 2022, 10:05:27 AM: Where there’s no peace. There’s no home.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Believe_N_Me on May 30, 2022, 02:37:05 PM: If you can afford to move out then by all means do so. I guess it really depends on who we're talking about here. A young adult? A teenager?
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 30, 2022, 08:25:45 PM: Quote from: Reporter on May 29, 2022, 06:44:15 AM
To reach one's goal, one must leave. Can't let toxic people get in the way.

There are many goals: 1. romance, 2. educational, 3. career, and 4. other aspirations.

That's one way to put it in the perspective.
That's true to the extent.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 30, 2022, 08:26:17 PM: Quote from: Believe_N_Me on May 30, 2022, 02:37:05 PM
If you can afford to move out then by all means do so. I guess it really depends on who we're talking about here. A young adult? A teenager?

Parents and siblings
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 30, 2022, 08:26:48 PM: Quote from: ProudLao on May 30, 2022, 10:05:27 AM
Where there’s no peace. There’s no home.

Drama and toxicity 24/7
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: ProudLao on May 30, 2022, 10:18:48 PM: Crowded space creates stress. Live from your heart and follow your own path. Calm your heart and mind down. Listen quietly, trust your own instinct and the answer will come to you, don’t try to find the answer.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 31, 2022, 07:42:18 AM: Quote from: ProudLao on May 30, 2022, 10:18:48 PM
Crowded space creates stress. Live from your heart and follow your own path. Calm your heart and mind down. Listen quietly, trust your own instinct and the answer will come to you, don’t try to find the answer.

How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Reporter on May 31, 2022, 08:37:04 AM: Quote from: Visualmon on May 31, 2022, 07:42:18 AM
How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.

Restraining order.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Reporter on May 31, 2022, 08:37:56 AM: Quote from: Visualmon on May 30, 2022, 08:26:17 PM
Parents and siblings

Must still be traditional to require adult children to live at home.
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: Visualmon on May 31, 2022, 09:12:17 AM: Quote from: Reporter on May 31, 2022, 08:37:04 AM
Restraining order.

What happen if the toxic person doesn't abide the rule of restraining order and go overboard by killing you?
Title: Re: Negatively in the House
Post by: ProudLao on May 31, 2022, 10:37:45 AM: Quote from: Visualmon on May 31, 2022, 07:42:18 AM
How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.

They can try but you just need to be stronger. You need to love yourself more.